I guess most of us go through some sort of identity crisis at one point or another in our lives .. or maybe two. The midlife crisis is a term most people know well, but what about the new kid in town? I'm talking about the quarterlife crisis that many twentysomethings go through after graduating from college and setting out into the world on their own as young adults.
Sometimes, as a result of their quarterlife crises, twentysomethings become what are known as "twixters." What are twixters, you ask? "Generally speaking being a twixter has to do with a conflicted sense of identity between one generation and another, and the effect that this group of people have on the dynamic of a certain culture," explains Ryan O'Reilly, author of the novel, "Snapshot," a semi-autobiographical tale that follows a young twixter as he journeys around the country, learning, growing, and collecting and leaving behind "snapshots" of life. "It's been going on for a long time," O'Reilly continues, "in the twenties we called them the lost generation, the fifties had the beat generation and now we have the twixters. I would imagine that a lot of twixters have had these quarterlife meltdowns, but it's not a requirement for membership. I think being a twixter simply means that a particular part of a generation chooses to stand up, raise their heads and look higher than the daily revolutions of the worldly machine and ask 'why?'"
O'Reilly supported himself "menially" while living as a twixter, but stresses that this is not necessarily the only way to be a twixter. It is possible to pursue the ideals of a twixter while continuing to work and/or go to college. "Part of this new enlightment, I think, is not being married to one particular career. I think people my age are expected to change careers a couple of times in our lives, and I'm sure that will grow in the future. So if we're going to be doing some career hopping, we should take some time in between to experience the world through travel and adventure. Anyone can do this, it just takes a little imagination and resourcefulness. It's daunting when you are in a career and you think, 'How could I survive without this income?' Once you do it, you realize that it's not that hard. Career and income are just a security blanket - not unlike the one you had when you were still sucking your thumb. We must grow to understand that the world is not a secure place, and to experience it in comfortable, evenly distributed portions is to not experience the world as it is," O'Reilly says.
The life of a twixter can in no way be compared to a "freeter" in Japan, O'Reilly says. Wikipedia describes freeters as "parasite singles" who make little or no contribution to society. "I want to discourage that kind of social hunting and gathering mentality," he adds.
"There must be a way to be free, and still be a productive member of society and we just have to find out what that is. It's very personal to each person, and all we have to do is cast off our blinders and find out what it is. The trick is not sacrificing your own personal freedom for the sake of your career, but then again still managing to do our part to create and maintain a functional world. I think we can develop a new enlightenment for ourselves, but not at the risk of our own aesthetic progress. What kind of world would we have if everyone ditched their jobs and took to the highway?"
The main purpose of O'Reilly's newly released novel, it would appear, is trying to understand who and what twixters are. In it, his twentysomething protagonist quits his job in corporate America to lead a nomadic life working with a touring band. Along the way, he learns some valuable lessons about the "snapshots" we give and receive on our journey through life. Clearly, there's a lesson to be learned on this journey.
"The one thing we know with 100 percent certainty is that we have this life that we are experiencing right now. In truth, your own beliefs in next lives or after lives is completely irrelevant to the point I'm trying to make," says O'Reilly. "Snapshots that we gather throughout life have many dimensions. We have the snapshots of our own experiences and we have the ones of people who have affected us throughout our years on this earth. What's most important to realize now, before much more life is gone, is that when we get to the end of the road, we have to consider not only the snapshots we've accumulated, but also the ones we've left behind for the people in the world.
"So behave yourselves." O'Reilly warns, "you never know who will pick up on what you do and carry that with them as a snapshot memory of you. I think the essential goodness of the human character, if left to flourish with this viewpoint, will guide you into creating the kind of snapshots you will be proud to have with you as you leave this world, and proud to leave behind."
I think that says it all.