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Another new trend that you may not be aware of with staffing agencies is that they now offer their own benefits packages. I imagine people aren't getting those temp-to-perm assignments as much as they did in the past. Or maybe there are more people who simply like the variety of working as temps. Whatever the reason, I am glad.
I can work as a temp and still have medical and dental coverage until I find permanent placement somewhere. I don't know how good the coverage is because I have not, yet, had occasion to use it. I am inclined to think that it is on a par with most other places these days. Still, even lousy insurance is better than no insurance at all.

So I was on a temporary hiatus from blogging because I was in DC learning about public policy issues and economy and meeting truly interesting and intelligent people from all around the world. It was a very interesting experience that helped me appreciate the words “liberty,” “freedom,” and “reality.” Long story. Anyway, I’m back IN reality—thank goodness—and so the world has returned in full force. I’ve been thinking lately that I need more hobbies. You know, things to fill my time when I’m not at work and not with friends. Surprisingly, there are a lot of things I don’t know how to do and have always wanted to try or learn and as an “adult” (which I am now, unfortunately) I’ve decided to fulfill my personal life as well as my professional life. I seriously think that is what a lot of people forget about and then they get stressed out, which leads to ulcers, and then the eventual mid-life crisis. I bet if they had taken the time to excel in their personal lives as well as their professional lives, they’d be much happier and much more grounded. I might be exaggerating, but I just bought a journal the other day and some string to go with my knitting needles, and I have to say that I’m having a lot of fun. Perhaps next week I’ll try juggling.

Well, the scores are in, and apparently I'm too crazy to be an employee.

I went back to the company that made me do a 50 page psychological test when I applied. Even though the automated response e-mail said I'd be considered for 90 days after I applied, I wanted to double check since they had already lost my first application.
However, even though it had been less than a week since I applied, they already knew some things. I had scored a "yellow" on the test, meaning they wouldn't even consider me for an interview.
The lady was very nice about the whole thing, though. She told me to do the entire thing (again) but this time only choose answers of "strongly agree" or "strongly disagree". Those, apparently, are the two key answers to getting a job. There is no middle ground.

I wasn't aware that there were only two answers for every question. I didn't think life was that black and white. Stupid elitist jerks. To lie on a psychological test just doesn't feel right.

One of the most daunting situations a job seeker can encounter is unemployment. On one hand, a brief period of joblessness can be a welcome break from the 9 to 5 grind. On the other hand, there is the stark reality of unpaid bills, falling behind in rent payments, and trying to retain your sense of self worth in a society that measures your value by what you do for a living.

When dealing with the prospect of unemployment, the two things you need are a good attitude and perseverance. I myself am currently going through a period of temporary unemployment, as I wait for a new temp job to come through. On a daily basis I try to maintain a positive outlook, reminding myself that I'm still far better off than the majority of people living in third world countries. I also remind myself of fun things I can do to fill up my idle time: read, write, take up old hobbies, etc.

As far as perseverance is concerned, I keep applying to jobs and calling my temp agency on a regular basis. I constantly remind myself that somewhere out there, there is a job waiting for me.

Last week, I told you that I would let you know, "What They Never Tell You About Internships." Well, I just finished reading the article from my newsletter and here is what it said. While an internship can be a difference maker in a successful job search, it may also pose a question: why would anyone want to work for a company other than the one he or she has interned for? A company may offer an intern a post-graduation full-time position, which is exactly what you want, right, or is it? Yes, a full-time position may reduce the stress of finding a job for the while, but you may want to think about how it may limit any opportunities for the future. This article says working for one company may seem like marrying the first and only person you ever dated. Now, this may be an apples and oranges type of comparison, but there may be a point. Now don't get me wrong, if I were to intern for a company and it offered me job security, I would probably take it if it was something that offered me what I wanted for the future. The article re-emphasizes this idea.

While interning for one company, most students consider other options for potential employment as well. However, other companies may wonder why you would not accept an offer from the one you are interning for. The article says to have a quick, intelligent response to this question so as not to look like "unwanted leftovers" from someone else's internship program. If you have an opportunity to stay within your company after graduation, consider telling other prospective employers this fact and why you chose to look outside of your company.

When opportunity knocks for long-term employment, you, the intern, are in a great position. Because you have an offer in the bag, you can explore other opportunities to find better offers. Next thing you know, the competition for your services increases as a potential employer for a variety of companies. Take advantage of the time you have to make a wise decision, but remember not to put it off past the response request date.

The new trend in employment recently has been staffing agencies. They’ve managed to come a long way and have managed to get many of the unemployed employed.

A few months ago I decided to head over to a staffing agency to see what they were all about. I needed work and they were offering me a pretty good position along with a not so bad pay. Well I come to find that you will be getting from $3-5 off the hourly pay of what you would get if you were hired permanently by the company you’re sent to. The bright side of this is that depending on the agency you go to, after 60-90 days you’re a permanent employee of where you were temping and you’re receiving that extra hourly pay as well as benefits, if applicable.

Staffing agencies are great step in the door for those who are having trouble finding permanent work. So try not to stress the deducted hourly pay and the no benefits issue, eventually it will pay off. Remember, we must all pay our dues.

First off, I just want to say thanks for all the feedback from my last post! I was really excited to see that I'm not the only person who sees the evil that lies dormant in all salespeople! Just kidding. My situation is a little different than most, though. Until I started at the paper, she was the only salesperson. I live in a town of less than 5,000 and even fewer subscribe to the paper. This is real small potatoes. She's not the favorite, she's just the only option and that hurts me and the paper. I have heard from several business owners that they would rather not deal with this woman at all. They usually speak directly witht the editor. He already has enough on his hands, I don't understand why he puts up with her. We're close enough to a huge college town that it would not be difficult to find somebody who could do her job better than she could. Anyway, that's not the point of this particular blog.

I just have a quick question. What does everybody think about the writing websites that offer to pay for articles? Have any of you published any articles on these sites? How difficult is it to be published on these sites? I was just wondering what everyone thought.

I had an epiphany last night. And I’m not the kind of person who uses the word epiphany lightly. Everyone loves epiphanies. I mean, what’s not to love? After struggling with a serious problem, perhaps a life-altering problem, there isn’t anything more relieving than that sudden moment of complete clarity. That one instant where everything seems to line up perfectly and the piercing light of truth cuts through the fog that has been clouding your vision for so long. As a recent college graduate I’ve had a lot on my mind of late. I’ve realized that this is the first time in my life where the road ahead is completely uncertain.

Up until now my life has basically been laid out for me by everybody but me: society, my parents, poorly written sitcoms, explicit rap lyrics, etc. There are no real decisions to make. You just go to school when you’re young. After high school you go to college. If you’re lucky enough to have options, the only real decision you make is where you’re going to go to college. After school everything changes. My roadmap is gone (and if I did have a roadmap there would be so many damn roads on there it would get me lost faster than Mapquest).
Now don’t get me wrong, I like options. Not having a plan can be a good thing. I don’t need someone to tell me what to do with my life; I just need to figure out what I want to do with it. Recently I’ve been torn between taking a serious job (that I obviously wouldn’t like), and postponing my ambitious career goals for a few years and trying to have as much fun with my youth as possible. After struggling with this question for a few weeks, the answer nowhere in sight, I had my epiphany.
My epiphany, like I’m sure most of yours do, came in bar under the heavy influence of alcohol. Let me set the stage for the convergence of events leading to my moment of absolute understanding: I met this girl a couple of weeks ago and we talked on the phone (when I say we “talked” I mean text messaged) a little bit and last night we decided to meet at this bar. So I get down there and she’s looking, for lack of a better word, banging! Which is a very good thing considering I’ve never laid my sober eyes on this girl. She’s really tall, model tall, with only the tiniest shred of what I’m assuming was a skirt hanging below her shirt. So far everything is looking up for Bryan. But then as I get a little closer to her, I realize that she’s not alone. No, she brought her friend with her. She apparently forgot to mention that when we were “talking” and setting up this little rendezvous. But her friend is hot too and there’s worse ways a 23 year old can spend a Wednesday night so I can’t really complain, right? Wrong.
First of all, now I can’t offer to buy my girl a drink without being forced into buying her friend a drink. Secondly, being on first date (I use this term very loosely) with a girl and her best friend is a nightmare. All guys know this. Her friend is basically acting as a chaperone: making sure that she doesn’t get too drunk, making sure that she doesn’t go home with you, loudly clearing her throat and raising her eyebrows every time you check out another girl, you know what I mean. So we take our happy little threesome over to a table where the friend starts blabbing loudly about how rude it is when she goes out with guys and they don’t pay for drinks. So I know I’m screwed right from the start. Then they proceed to only order shots of Patron for the rest of the night, the only alcohol on the menu that is too premium to fall under any of the middle-of-the-week specials. After a couple hours of tequila and drunken banter, which mostly included shallow exchanges like her asking me how much my watch cost followed by me pretending that it isn’t a knock-off and muttering some outrageous figure, I had my epiphany. I happened when the waitress (who was also incredibly hot) came to pickup the bill. Right then, it was like the stars were aligned. I was glancing over at this tall, gorgeous woman sitting next me and as I handed the waitress the bill, for the first time that night I really felt like I had a chance with her. This fortunate experience unfortunately happened to occur exactly when one of the other gorgeous women at the table (the waitress, who had been overly nice to me all night) opened up the little black book that the check comes in, (I don’t know what those are called) gave me very disapproving look that bordered on complete abhorrence before storming off, obviously upset with her tip, or lack there of. It was at this moment as I sat there staring into my wallet realizing that I only had enough money for about half of the cab ride home that it just all seemed to hit me like a ton of bricks.
I know that it sounds shallow and I know that using some girl as an analogy for the rest of my life seems stupid, but I don’t know, it just seems to make sense. If last night is my life then the girls I was with have to represent happiness because nothing would have made me happier last night than them. And how do I achieve happiness? I think its pretty clear from my story that the only way to do such is thing is with money. Ok, not really. But one thing is clear to me after my epiphany, without money, there’s no girls. And without a job, there’s no money. Maybe this doesn’t qualify as an epiphany, maybe I knew this all along, maybe I was just kidding myself pretending that I could enjoy my youth without being paid. Either way, if last night is any indicator, I’m going to be having lots of fun as soon as I get a job…

In my last blog, I talked about the amazing offer I received from doing promotional marketing. A week ago today I was comparing air fare, hotel prices and getting ready to head to Las Vegas to work for two weeks in Sin City.

There was just one hitch in my foolproof plan; I was already booked to work another event in Oregon during the time of the Vegas event. No problem, I thought, I’ll just call my booker and cancel those three days that overlap.

I was rudely and abrasively confronted by my booker when she told me she wasn’t going to “allow” me to cancel one event to work another one, even though both events are put on by the same company that I work for. No where in my contract did it say that this was against the rules. And, that’s because it isn’t.

This booker was on an undeniable power trip, an ego rage that kept me from taking on this amazing job opportunity. An opportunity, that would skyrocket my career, put a LOT of money in my pocket, and boost my resume to the nth degree. I was livid.

Since then, I have taken a step back from this line of work, as I am finding it unreliable, unstable, and inconsistent. Even though the pay can not be matched by any other entry level work, it is not worth the headache and frustration of dealing with bookers that will inevitably screw me over.

So this is my first blog entry and I’ve decided to make it a blog of how important getting out there and gaining valuable work experience really is. A good friend of mine recently graduated with his bachelor’s degree this past June. He has been applying for work left and right and has received maybe three calls for interviews out of the 43 positions applied for. Now most of these employers are in search for a recent college grad, so what’s the problem?
Well, I decided to ask him to let me see what type of experience he had and also asked what interviewers had told him.

The problem was this: NO INTERNSHIPS HELD! He had not completed not even one internship his whole four years in college. The jobs he held did not apply to his major at all. So we know now that what prospective employers are searching are not only recent college grads but recent college grads with some experience within the industry. Wow!! Okay, so that’s why schools push students to apply for internships. After seeing what my friend is going through I realized, I got to get going with this. I’ve got to gain some valuable work experience within the journalism field. So my journey has begun. I am now in the process of locating and applying for several journalism internships.

My advice to you all is this, do not go through college without upholding an internship in your area of interest. If this is not possible, search for positions which can give you valuable experience and knowledge within whatever major you may be studying. With a little research and patience you will find all the possibilities which await you the student.
And for the recent grads who have been unfortunate in their job search, DO NOT GIVE UP!! Find a position that will allow you to gain experience without having experience.

So I’m happy as can be being able to learn from someone else’s mistake. I find myself now with a clear head and with full motivation and direction towards my goal. I know now, more than ever, that it takes more than just those college courses we register for every semester. Keep in mind, don’t turn down those internships, they just may be your key to that great career you’re working so hard for to reach.

Let's talk about technology.

I attend a Technological University. You are only "cool" there if you have the latest gizmo's and gadgets to impress everyone else. Companies are investing more and more into every apsect of technology; wireless, blue tooth, etc.

This is what I want to know: Does new technology really make things easier?

At first, it seems like it does. Now, instead of waiting days for approval drawings, contracts, or quotes to come in the mail- it just takes the click of a button and an email is sent. It's faster and simpler, right?

But when you get a new cell phone that does 27 different things, it comes with an instruction BIBLE. Not just a manual, not a few pages of easy reading, it comes with a book of size that rivals Webster's Dictionary. By the time you master all of it's uses something comes out that does 50 things!

And if you don't bother reading the instructions at all, then you don't know half of what it can do. Suddenly the features that attracted you toward buying it in the first place are forgotten.

What I am getting at is that what seems to be making everything in life simpler for us, really SHOULD do that.

This is my first post, just to check things out. I have a personal blog that I write to several times a day, so I think this one will be strictly for opinions and business related spiel.

Here's something else that I discovered in the PAS office at the university and thought that I should share:

10 Hottest Transferable Skills

*Budget management
*Supervising public relations
*Public relations
*Coping with deadline pressure
*Negotiating/arbitrating
*Speaking
*Writing (this one we can do)
*Organizing/Managing/Coordinating
*Interviewing
*Teaching/Instructing


This is something I came across in my university's Program for Academic Success office. They do career counseling as well as academic counseling.

10 Characteristics that Employers Look For Most:

*Communication skills
*Honesty/Integrity
*Teamwork skills
*Interpersonal skills
*Motivation/Initiative
*Strong work ethic
*Analytical skills
*Flexibility/Adaptability
*Computer skills
*Self-confidence

How many of these characteristics do WE have?

I just realized a short time ago that it has been months since I applied for a new job. Not one application since just before starting this gig back in February. Not that those tiresome forms are missed. In fact, I can't think of a single thing to miss about applying for jobs. It has been great. Well, as great as working full time can be, which it turns out is not really all that great. But enough with the negatives, think positive. Think of the plusses, like not having to dress up anymore, or the fact that I am now getting paid to go to and do all this work. Nobody is bugging me to get a job anymore. I have money now, so I can concentrate on working my way into a career that I actually want in my spare time. It did not work out perfectly, but they worked. With somwthing to stand on now, it is time to start going for bigger things.

I haven't written in a few days, mainly due to technical difficulties. For some reason, the collegerecruiter webpage wouldn't load. Heck, quite a few pages wouldn't load. I've been slogging along with limited internet access, but it all seems back to normal now for some reason or another.

Anyway, a few weeks ago, I did an online application to work at a company. I walked into the building, asked for an application, and left a few seconds later with a card with a shifty web address on it.
It turns out that the application was approximately 40-50 pages and took the better part of an hour. I went for a job, and ended up getting a psychological test. I know that's standard, but it's not the most fun way to spend a friday night.
Recently, I was back in the area of the same company and I asked if they had decided (since no one contacted me back). Someone went off to check, and came back with some irritating info.
They never got anything from me. Ever. Despite the automated e-mail message I got saying that everything worked fine. They were really apologetic about it, but told me I had to redo the entire application.

Ahhh, the information age.

I was just reading an article on cover letters and wanted to get some feedback on them. The article said that a good cover letter is often more important than your resume. Is this true? I have written only one in the past for an internship I did not end up taking. The article said that a good cover letter, in addition to your resume, may encourage more job opportunities to arise. If anyone has experienced success with a cover letter, please let me know.

Teaching in Italy fell through. The company that extended the offer to me thought that I had a European Union passport. Unfortunately, when I was cleaning out my room a few weeks ago, I stumbled upon my EU passport and since I hadn’t used it in decades, I decided to chuck it.

That joke works on multiple levels, by the way. You’ve got “decades” in there, which makes me sound much older than 23, and is also impossible since the European Union was established within this decade. And then you’ve got “I was cleaning my room.”

I have an interview today as the Activities Assistant Director at an old persons home. Pretty wild, huh? I think it could be a good time. I’ve also decided I might move back down to my college town and find a job that I might like there. Living expenditures are cheap down there… and I’ll have my independence… and some of my buddies… and my gal… so I think I might have to go through with the idea. If I do, I’m going to try to work at a nearby insane asylum. I cannot begin to tell whoever is reading this how interesting I find that stuff. I get the feeling that that kind of job can get depressing, but I think there’s a hell of a lot to get out of it.

I’m also going to see if the NSA will give me a shot. Something tells me the answer is ‘absolutely no chance, son,’ but it’s worth a shot.

And if you haven’t done so already, check out mi libro, Tales of a True American: The Legend of Badass Kyle Lewis 2003-2006. www.lulu.com/content/366324. But be forewarned, its very in-your-face.


Adieu.

My boss' car broke down yesterday. That really and truly should have little to no impact on me whatsoever. Not the case. By the time he got to the office he was in a foul mood (understandable), and then spent a significant amount of time amidst profuse strings of swearing talking with the dealership about getting it towed, fixing it, etc. (still understandable).

Here's where I come in . . . Apparently the car dealership that he uses is in the part of the city that I live in. He doesn't live there, nor is the office there. He immediately became bright and cheery when he decided that I would be the solution to all of his problems. I could drop he and his wife off at the dealership to pick the car up after work. As I've mentioned before, he's not a please -- thank you -- would you mind kind of guy. I was scheduled to work until 3 PM. Had he been willing to go then to get his car, I would definitely have given him a lift. But, he wanted me to wait until 4 PM, when it was more convenient for him and then go get the car.

His approach was something like this, "If you waited to leave until 4, you could drop us off to get the car." With my response being, "I'm really sorry, but when we discussed my schedule last week, we decided specifically when I was going to work each day to keep my time under 20 hours. I've made other appointments for hair cut, dentist, and personal training accordingly, since I need to get all that done before I leave to go back to school next week. I really need to leave at 3 PM like we agreed in order to get to the appointmnet that I've scheduled for this afternoon." Was he mad!!!! I honestly don't think he would have been satisfied unless he got exactly what he wanted, but I simply couldn't accomodate him. How else should I have handled the situation?

Yesterday, I went to a local facility and took tests for the state as a clerk typist. I was very nervous as I was about to take the tests, but they weren't as hard as I thought they would be. I feel pretty good about these tests because I know I did my best on them as I also did during my interview with the federal government, for all of you who remember me posting an entry a little while back about it. I've been desperately trying to find a job in my field, so I considered state jobs as well. I went to my local senators office, received papers to fill out, filled them out, sent them back, and waited to hear from the state with a time to take my test. The state government even received a letter of recommendation for me in the area I was applying from the senator, which was an added plus. I'm still job searching, but I hope this one works out for me. I think it's something I would really enjoy doing as a career. I'm waiting for my results in the mail. I can't wait!

I have no regrets. I'm glad I packed up everything I own and managed to fit it in that compact version of a sedan in order to attend graduate school outside of Philadelphia. I have embraced the opportunities to meet new people, explore alternate facets of the world of publishing and pursue my dreams of working as an editor. What I haven't enjoyed is the constant stress of worrying about taking out extensive loans which culminate into a burden which has anchored my mind in a constant sea of worry. It's like knowing there's a monster hiding in your closet beneath the pile of wrinkled clothes on the floor, but being able to lock the door avoiding the menacing presence waiting to tear you limb from sweating limb. Every time I accept the loan disbursement, a choke hold is reinforced on my neck leaving outlines of fingers and the imprints of their violent grip. The stress associated with taking out loans and acknowledging the impending debt can either be ignored or all-consuming depending on your preference and general state of mind. Since I came into this world worrying about things I wasn't even acquainted with yet, my personality always allows the monster to make his presence known in that closet. I can never escape the knowledge that the debt might sneak out and terrorize me for potentially the rest of my life. I do find comfort in the fact that I am pursuing an education in a field I enjoy and would choose happiness over wealth any day. There is also research which proves that by earning your Master's degree, even if you have to invest the complete budget of a small country, you will eventually earn more over the course of your career. There is always the paranoia that upon graduation, a job will not be forthcoming and those loans will not get paid sheerly because you'll be stuck living on the street. Perhaps I need to look at all of this as more of an investment in the future as opposed to a financial burden in the present. The federal government provides access to these funds so people can propel themselves into their profession with a confidence which can only be attained through education as well as experience. I also have this dark fear that the federal government will suddenly decide that I no longer deserve a loan for any number of minute reasons like I changed the color of my hair so I no longer match the picture appearing in my photo identification. Constantly looking over my shoulder to make sure the monster is tightly locked up in that closet might end up leaving me with permanent whiplash.

I was just looking over my email when I read an interesting article on real world experience from a newsletter I subscribe to. Perhaps some of you, like myself, have wondered why it can be a challenge to find entry level work during a job search. The lack of experience is the key, of course, and has you thinking how am I going to gain any real work experience. According to one hiring manager, too many of us get stuck in the mindset of looking only for paid work experience. He says that any type of experience in your field is beneficial, whether full-time or part-time, or paid or unpaid. By taking advantage of any opportunity, you can get a feel for the type of industry you are considering, and may possibly save yourself from making a career mistake. No matter what, he says that all career seekers should use their experiences like a sponge; soak up all of the information you can to help you better understand what a career in a particular field is like. He also talks about internships. He says most of the time, if you ask employers about the availability of them, they will likely say no. However, if you ask about summer jobs in their field, they more often will say yes. He says the difference is that many employers believe that internships are training programs designed to prepare people for the real work in a company; summer internships allow you to do the real work. The real work provides the best experience according to him. And speaking of internships, the next newsletter is entitled, "What They Never Tell You About Internships." I will be sure to tell you next week.

Despite what you might think, looking in newspaper ads is not always the best way to find a job. In fact, a large percent of jobs out there are never even advertised in print. Here's where networking comes in. The idea behind networking is that whenever you're talking to someone in a social setting, you treat them as a potential job contact. You do this by subtly letting them know A) you're looking for a job, and B) what type of field you're interested in. Even if the specific person you're talking to has no present job leads, they may know of someone else who could help you. Obviously, not every social situation is going to lead you to an instant job opportunity. But think about it: each time you interact with someone in this way, you're getting more and more practiced at talking about your job potential in a smooth, convincing manner. Soon it will come as a habit to walk up to someone and say, "Hi, my name is [insert name]. I'm really into [insert career field], and in fact I am currently looking for a job in this area." (Of course don't use that exact wording, but find some way to artfully work that information into your conversation.)

Naturally, some places are better than others to look for networking opportunities. A friend of mine says that the best place to network is at a meeting for an academic organization of some sort (for instance, National English Honors Society, or an alumni event at your college.) Other valuable networking places are dinner parties and church meetings. Just make sure, however, that you are at least fairly knowledgeable on the career field you are interested in. Not only does it impress the person you are talking to with your intelligence, but it also shows that you have a strong, genuine interest in the career field. Of course, sometimes the most unlikely situations can turn into valuable networking opportunities. For instance, another friend of mine found out about her current job when she was on the phone with an insurance agent. All she did was ask the insurance agent A) if they liked their present job, and B) how they got into that career. A mundane conversation was turned into an interview opportunity. With a little optimism, ingenuity, and persistence, anyone can succeed at the art of networking.

The world has this perception about being sick that most of us understand and agree with, but it’s not totally true. The world says that when one is sick, their abilities are of no use. The world says that when one is sick, all they need to do is replace work with R&R and then everything will be just fine and dandy. Even I have misled my own body into thinking that R&R was all I needed to feel better and do better. Then reality hit me, and began speaking to me.
Reality says, “Joe Wes it’s going to take more than R&R to get you into the place that you want to be in.” R&R is just allowing you to take a break from who you are and go into a place or comfort, just for it to end and you to be back in the religious state of being sick. Now, I know most of you thought that the sick I am talking about mainly is physical, but it’s not. This sickness can be harmful to you physically, mentally and spiritually. It can cause so much damage that you don’t even know who you are any more. I mean, you find yourself doing things you never thought you’d do before. Mental sickness is what most of the world is suffering from today and until someone can stand up with the real cure, in which people will believe. The world will forever be in the rut that it is in right now.
I know you’re probably saying to yourself what rut is the world. What is this man talking about? If you look around society and even within your own community you will see that it’s not as it was in times before.
My discussion will go deeper as I indulge within this subject, but I am open to as many responses as you want to give.

Last week something happened at the newspaper that was a little unsettling but I let it slide. Today something happened to make me realize that the incident that occurred last week was no accident. Now I'm uncomfortable at the paper and I don't know if I should approach my boss about it or if I should let it slide; and if I should approach my boss, how do I do that?

A couple of blogs ago I mentioned being reaquainted with a girl I went to high school with. The reason I talked to her was to get her an ad in the paper for her business. Every July my town has a little fair, I guess you could call it. It's pretty much an excuse for the entire town and surrounding areas to get together and get drunk on public property. Well, this girl owns a wine bar in town and, unfortunately, they don't have a lot of extra money for advertising right now. However, I thought if there was a good time to advertise that you have alcohol now would be the time. The girl had already spoken to the woman who normally handles the advertising for the paper and told her that she did not want to put an ad in the paper for the event. (In order to tell the story a little better I will identify the girl with "A" and the woman with "Z".) "A" didn't want to deal with "Z" because "Z" is incredibly pushy and incredibly rude. During my short time at the paper I have spoken with many people who feel this way. My boss at the restaurant has actually requested that "Z" never step foot in her restaurant again because of the way "Z" has behaved in the past. Anyway, I know "A's" mother and she and I spoke and she convinced "A" to speak with me. I did and "A" decided that putting an ad in the paper was a good idea and we spent about an hour coming up with an ad suitable for the event.

I was quite proud of myself. I brought the ad back to the publisher of the paper, we went over it together, and he passed it on to the woman who does the ad design and layout and such. This woman then sent a proof to "A" to show her what would go in the paper. "A" loved it and couldn't wait for the paper to come out. Finally, the day the paper came out, "A" called me and told me that her ad wasn't in the paper. I was very confused and called the publisher to tell him and find out what went wrong. Long story short (a little too late!), the publisher informed me that "Z" had informed him that "A" did not want the ad in the paper.

I was livid. I couldn't believe the audacity of this woman. Not to mention the childish catiness. The woman has been with the paper for 15 years and she's never had an assistant. Seems to me that somebody's getting jealous. I let it slide...until today.

My mom went in to "A's" business (which is also a coffee shop) and told me to come in and talk to "A" for she had gotten an e-mail from "Z". Last week I was in a pretty serious car accident and spent a couple of days in the hospital. While I was in the hospital "Z" sent "A" an e-mail asking "A" how she liked her new assistant. "A" sent a fairly neutral response back saying that she liked me and that I was a nice girl. "Z" then returned with "Oh, good because Sara was in a car accident and is in the hospital. I guess you'll just have to deal with me for a while." Why else would she send something like that if not to start a fight? I asked "A" to please inform the publisher of the paper of the e-mail. I know he's not oblivious to "Z's" behavior but I would like some back-up if I'm to talk to him about her.

I'm just not sure what to do. She's sabotaging me, but, even worse, she's sabotaging the paper. If she's going to get angry every time I make a sale that she can't make then we aren't going to be a very strong team and I'm not going to get very far. Not only that, she's losing the paper money and in a time when newspapers aren't fairing well anyway, it's very detrimental to the business. Plus it's not very professional.

So am I looking for the bad and jumping to conclusions or has this woman really lost her marbles? I don't know what to do but helping her out isn't on my list of priorities anymore. Aaaaaahhh!

I have always known that I want to write but, between the discouragements of high school English teachers and the failings of my college education, getting the ball roling on a writing career has been very difficult. Ok, it hasn't been just difficult, it's been easily avoided. I don't know where to start so why try? I realize that part of this evasion is due to a personality flaw, but the rest is due to the lack of a starting point.

For quite some time now I've felt that all was hopeless. However, now that I've actually found a starting point (this blog!) I've realized that I know exactly where to look to find things. The internet is so full of resources for writers. I've joined some other writers' blogs and have discovered a support system that I've never had before. I've always been a little afraid to socialize online. I've never joined any chat rooms or made friends playing online poker but I'm slowly growing the confidence to post a comment here and there. Pretty soon I may actually have the guts to post my own writing on some of these sites!

I have realized my dream to become a writer in an age in which technology can be my greatest ally in firing up my confidence and my career. I feel a little silly that this hasn't come together before but I suppose it's better late than never.

My next step is learning how to incorporate all of this into my resume....

Temporary assignments are a lot like internships, especially the long term assignments that last two months or more. These assignments are often temp-to-hire, although not always.

Since temps are sent to companies that have a use for their skills, the assignment becomes a feeling out period for the employer and the temporary employee. What is the company like? What is the culture? What kind of benefits do they offer? What kind of pay? The company, in turn, gets to learn what kind of person was hired. Is she punctual? Is he careful about his work? Is he a team player? All of these things are very important.

Temps should look at their assignments in much the same way college students look at internships. Don't let desperation cause you to work for a company that just isn't a good fit for you. So choose your assignments wisely. You are allowed to refuse an assignment if a company doesn't sound like it's for you; you are also allowed to call the agency and say, "You know, I just don't feel good about this assignment. I don't think this company and I would be a good fit. Can you find me something else?" Because you can be sure that, on the other side of the equation, if you're not a good fit for them, they're calling the agency to ask for a replacement. You're not being disloyal to your agency when you say no to an assignment they offer, you're being true to yourself and that's a good thing. Plus, you make the agency look good when you do accept an assignment because when you like where you are, you do a good job and you make a good impression on someone who could end up being your boss for the next 10 to 20 years.

Recently I read an article where the writer lamented that there are still a lot of college students who believe that a bachelor's degree alone is enough to get them the best salaries and the best jobs. Her article sought to inform them that they are wrong. I happen to agree.

Getting work experience in your major is invaluable, especially for writers. There are so many different kinds of writing and so many different venues or types of media where one can be published that to opt against doing at least one internship before graduation is self-sabotage.

I have done enough newspaper writing to know that is my favorite kind of writing; however, I also like to write fiction and poetry. I do these as a hobby and have never sold anything or even been published, except to buried somewhere in an anthology as thick as Merriam-Webster's Complete Unabridged Dictionary. That's ok. I write because I love it, not because I think it will make me rich someday. My point is simply that had I never tried an internship with a local newspaper, I never would have known what a charge it is. Features are my favorites because I like writing about the lighter side of life. Also, they are closest to the kind of writing I like to do in my spare time.

Don't brush off those internship opportunities. Whether paid or unpaid, the chance to discover where you want to work and what you want to do before graduation is irreplaceable.

I am forever amazed with the job search engine. How is it possible for me to spend an hour highlighting, uploading, checking, and filling out information about myself and my job-wants only to receive daily e-mails full of job suggestions I want no part of? It's incredible. So, I just spent another hour revamping the 4 or 5 job searches I'm a part of. Hopefully, by narrowing my field down I'll receive more helpful e-mails. I was under the impression that craming all of this information into the site was the right thing to do, now I know that it just makes things more complicated. I'm begining to realize why so many people complain about the job search.

Has anyone ever imagined your career as a sailing ship? Well, one writer does after an online article I just read. He says a career is like a sailing ship that will take you anywhere you want to go with the right skills and determination. This writer says most people tend to use something called the "coastal sailing approach." The theory explains how most of us have a hard time picturing land across the water; in other words, seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. The writer goes on to say that we limit ourselves to what we can "realistically" see as far as any goals and dreams are concerned, but go no further because anything else is otherwise "impossible." He wants career seekers to be encouraged by what he calls "The Horizon Effect", which allows people to see change as we move forward in life. In life, what may seem unlikely one day, may become greatly possible the next; you never know. In closing, he tells us if we stick to the coastline on our career path, we limit what our future can become. These are definitely powerful words of wisdom I will take with me as I move along to develop a successful career.

I'm back from my international study at Oxford University. What can I say of the experience? It opened my eyes to possibilities. Yes, even for someone who isn't young. I am a nontraditional, older student, married with three children. I have been trying for over a decade to finish my education! Although I missed my children terribly, I do not regret the experience in any way. In some ways, I rediscovered myself--perhaps the temporary detachment from my spouse allowed me to remember who I am as an individual--and the possibilities my future holds. I also believe the experience allowed me to view life as more than simply my version of the American-centric dream. I heard many different accents and languages, and even heard accented words at 1 A.M. that would make my mother blush. I learned alot about another culture and space in time. And I am truly thankful. For those who read my post, I wish for you the experience of international study--in more ways than one, it is the experience of a lifetime--and it will change you forever.

I got a bit ahead of myself in my last update. See, I'm new here on the blog, and I probably should have shown a bit more about my background before I started railing on the problems in the job hunt.

I'm a recent college graduate with a BA in English. I minored in writing, and ultimately that's what I want to do. I want to be a writer. I want to entertain people, to make them laugh and enjoy life a little more than normal.

Of course, I'm a few steps away from that goal. At the moment, I'm still in the "I need a job, any job to support my writing addiction" phase.

Anyway, that's enough about me for now. I'll leave you with something I learned the other day (thankfully not the hard way). Never pay money to get a job. If I've learned anything through searching the internet for jobs, it's that there are a lot of scams out there. Not that I didn't know the internet was full of scams to begin with, but this is the first time they applied to me. Employers will hire you if they want you. Never give money to make money. Something about that whole deal seems shady.

Well much to my dismay I haven't had much success with my dream job. I did the application process that they had asked for, and I emailed the person back thanking them for the opportunity and telling them that I hope to work with them soon. I was told that I would hear from them in 1-3 business days. Well more than a week went by and then I got an email from them saying that they had email and website problems which didn't allow all of my application information to be processed, and that they would still like to hear from me and to re-apply. I tried to re-apply but when I clicked to submit my application, I kept getting a website page error. I've tried several times, and I emailed the individual back about this, asking if there was a way to resolve this or to apply another way but I have yet to hear back from them. I'm beginning to wonder if this job and company is legit. Is this something I should be worrying about or am I overreacting? I think I've been more than patient with all of this. I'm not sure what other actions to take.

What does everyone think about work parties? I’ve never really experienced them, and they always seemed weird since I’ve never really worked with more than one person who was in my “peer” group (within 5 years of my age and same station at work as me). Plus, most of my companies haven’t had them at all and definitely not traditional work parties.

My new job has them a few times a year, including a big party every July. The big party is Friday, and my new manager invited me today. It’s actually a huge event – not just the company – so it won’t be too awkward to not know anyone. It seems like a blast, and I’d love to go. I just wish I’d started sooner. I’m not sure the first time I meet people that I want it to be at a place with a bar (not that I’ll be getting anything approaching drunk, mind you). Maybe I’m just old-fashioned.

So far, I’m 85% sure I’m going because I do want to, and I am eager to meet more people. But I am nervous. Maybe I’ll feel better tomorrow once I pick up the tickets and understand more about the event, what to wear, etc. I think I'm more nervous about the idea because it is totally the opposite of my previous ideas about working. I think it goes back to my mother, who always refused to go to the company party or picnic because she thought any slight mis-step (the wrong shoes, bringing the wrong pot luck dish) would be worse than not going. Her attitude was always that no impression was probably the best impression. That's even what she told me about this event when I mentioned it. I don't entirely agree with her, but when something's so ingrained in you, it's hard to change.

After the stress of finals week settled, I was abruptly thrust into the rush of finding the perfect summer job. With about two weeks of summer behind me, I was starting to feel the angst of disappointment and despair in ever really finding a job that 1.) I enjoy 2.) That pays upwards of minimum wage. I was about to throw the towel in, until one fate full day my sister informed me of the perfect opportunity.

It isn’t a 9-5 job, it pays extremely well, and it’s fun. Sound too good to be true? Well it’s not. I was skeptical at first, but once I learned more about this amazing offer, I jumped at the chance to be apart of the program.

This summer I am working as a promotional model, doing marketing and promotions for various big wig companies. I advertise their products, talk to customers, and do a number of other fun activities. In fact, next week I will be traveling to Las Vegas to work in a casino and advertise cell phones for a large sports company.

The only downside is, if you can even call it that is that the work isn’t entirely steady. It fluctuates from week to week. But, on the other hand, I choose my own hours and what jobs I will accept and for what pay. The Las Vegas job pays $35/hr for two weeks, working 10 hours a day. You do the math, cha ching!

Being a journalism major, I intended to find a job that used my talents as a writer and as a reporter, but since nothing in that field was available during my three months of summer, I chose another option. Work in fun locations, for lots of money, meeting new people everyday. I think I made the right choice. I learned a valuable lesson, don’t turn down an opportunity just because it isn’t directly related to what you want to do in life…sometimes the best things come your way when you least expect them to.

There's been lots of talks amongst friends and family about where I'll be a year from now. I only have one year to go before I can graduate and finally this leave this town. Unfortunately, it seems there are a lot of people standing in my way and convincing me (poorly) that staying at home for a few years after college will be the best thing for me.

I know my head is a bit clouded right now and I'm a little *too* eager to leave home, but I honestly feel that staying at home after college will be a waste of precious time. The reasons my friends and family gave me aren't very convincing. In fact, let's analyze them real quick:

Reason numero uno: Why don't you stay here, get a small local job and move out after you gained the experience.
Okay, not a bad idea, but is this how I want to live my life? Going about it as slowly as possible? Wouldn't it be better to dive into the pool instead of slowly and painfully easing into it? I've never been impulsive in my entire life and I'm tired of sitting around taking the easy way out.


Reason numero dos: Why don't you stay here, get a job and work on your Master's.

Now this is even a bigger waste of time. Editors won't care if I have a Master's degree. They want experience and sitting around wasting more money on education isn't going to help me.

Who knows what I'll do a year from now. I just wish I had more support.

Staying healthy and holding a full-time job has proven extremely difficult. I am an avid gym-goer, and a health nut, and when I get home from my 8-5 I am too exhausted to even think about going to the gym or exercising. I just want to flop onto the couch and watch some TV before I eat dinner, shower, sleep and then go to work the next day. Even if I do one day have the energy to go to the gym after work, it’s primetime. The gym is so crowded that the wait to use machines is unbearable and patience is not one of my fortes.

Right now I’m lucky because I am only working three days a week for the summer. Unfortunately, come September, I will be in the office Monday through Friday, and in my eyes that means bye-bye gym. Equally distressing is that my lunch hour is so short. Sixty minutes is not nearly enough time to drive somewhere, eat something and get back to work on time. Not unless I hit Burger King or some pizza place—and I don’t eat fast food. I feel guilty. For the past week I’ve just been eating breakfast, skipping the whole lunch hour thing, and then coming home and eating cereal. I have bypassed so many food groups in the past week that I’ve actually been craving vegetables, and who does that?

However, I have recently come up with a solution to my unhealthy woes. Instead of the daunting gym factor preventing me from exercising, I have chosen to walk around my neighborhood to get my heart rate up before dinner rather than simply sitting down and waiting to eat. There are even exercises that are perfect to do inside the home without the worries of a gym. As for the eating situation, fruits, granola bars, a bagged lunch, water bottles and a big breakfast have become tools of the trade.

It might seem trivial but it is the easiest thing in the world to eat for convenience rather than for health in the workplace. The vending machines packed with high salt and sugar as well as the eventual high cholesterol. The employee birthdays and workplace gatherings loaded with cakes, pastries and fried foods are so tempting especially when hunger is tugging at your gut. It’s worse when you just sit in an office all day, then drive to get your high fat lunch or snack and then go home and sit around the house. That was more than 12 hours of eating and sitting, those calories add up.

A healthy and active lifestyle is essential in the workplace, yet it is easily looked over and then it’s a wonder where those extra pounds came from. It’s funny, I didn’t realize how important exercising and “eating right” were to me until I started working full-time and my time and energy have become stretched a bit thin. For me, exercising and eating healthy go hand in hand with my professional life and I’m glad I don’t have to sacrifice either hand.

Actually, I think this will continue past fall, but it is a “trend” in my opinion, so I have no idea when it will end – but like all trends, something else will replace it, I’m sure. For now, though, the headline has replaced the objective.

Objectives can be lame, especially if they’re broad like – “I would like to attain an enriching position, where I can learn, grow, and achieve.” The basic rule of thumb on a resume is, of course, brevity. If you say anything that doesn’t mean something (like the above) that’s a huge don’t, but even if you say something that doesn’t add enough value for its space, it’s a don’t, in my opinion (ironically, much the way I used to judge short stories and poetry when I was in workshop).

Objectives can also be useful ways to tell people who you are, what you want, and why you’re looking for a job. Only, for the most part, employers don’t care about all that. Well, they do, but they don’t immediately know they do. That’s for later in the process, not for the beginning of your resume. What they care about immediately is: What can you do for them?

Instead, recruiters are now recommending you introduce with a headline and a brief passage (2-3 lines on your resume max, including the headline) that does state what you want (specifics!) but focuses on what you can do. Some recruiters suggested I pick three key areas of experience applicable to the job.

For instance, my headline on the resume for the job I landed was:

“Sales Professional, Transitioning into Advertising with Experience in Client-Building, Sales, and Marketing”

According to the recruiter, the third of the “key areas” is supposed to be one where you have reasonable but not extensive experience, and the first two are supposed to be extremely strong.

Now, for me, recruiters (and their advice) were a huge help and a great resource. If you’re lucky enough to get a phone interview or face to face with a recruiter, don’t view it as a passageway just to this job, but as a passageway to dozens of job possibilities, plus tons of valuable information. If a recruiter likes you, they’ll help you develop your skills, tip you off to new openings before they’re advertised, and sometimes even go to bat for you. And some recruiters are major players in the field for which they recruit.

I did a huge trimming of the fat on my resume, based on a recruiter’s suggestions, and I loved the new look and the results it got me. That recruiter put me up for a position that was filled before I got a chance to interview, but he was invaluable in telling me about the industry (a different one than the job I took, but one I’m still interested in) and helping me craft a stronger marketing strategy for myself. I think the headline versus objective was one of his best strategies. Also, it’s sometimes helpful to bold parts of your resume (specific numerical accomplishments, awards, promotions, leadership stuff, etc).

Other Useful Advice I Was Given
*Leave out pat phrases like “organizational skills,” “team player,” “time management skills.” No hiring manager, recruiter, or keyword software looks for these. They’re considered filler material. Instead, show how you used your organizational skills to achieve a goal, illustrate a time you achieved something on a team, or speak about juggling various time commitments successfully.

*Read the ad and identify the nouns that will be keywords. This is the trick to getting past the software. 90% of the time, every keyword you need to get your resume in front of an actual person can be found in the initial advertisement.

*Address your letter to an actual person (hiring manager, recruiter) whenever possible. The legwork to find the hiring manager is usually worth it.

*Unless the ad asks for it, never call about an opening before you send in your resume. If you want to call, mention in your cover letter that you will follow up. Then, do so. Many hiring managers consider phone calls rude, especially if you call to ask questions about the position before you’ve sent in your information.

*Never indicate that you’re going to use this position as a springboard to another division or department within the company. Ambition is great, but make it seem like you want to move up, not over. Remember, if you’re hiring for a sales job, you’re hiring with a sales manager. If you’re hiring for an editorial job, you’re hiring for a managing editor. For the most part, sales managers don’t want people who would rather be editors, and editors don’t want people who would rather be in sales. In fact, they're often times insulted by this tactic. Wouldn't you be? It's like going out with someone to get the attention of their best friend. It is useful to get a foot in the door for a lateral move, but if your resume says that might be the case (as mine did for certain positions), make it absolutely clear how enthusiastic you are about this part of the company before it becomes an issue. This is a mistake I see my friends make all the time, and they never get the job.

Happy Wednesday!

I left everybody hanging from my last post by stating that I would be going to Florida alone. A lot has changed since then, and I had not been able to update because I lost internet connection for two weeks. The wedding is on for Saturday. I'm excited, nervous, and scared all at the same time because I will be leaving everything I know in Ohio. I am more excited and driven then anything else, because I feel it is definately time for me to be moving on to something that my skills and personality as an enthusiastic self-starter will be aptly used.

First of all, my fiance landed a job with an advertising company and scouted out places for us to live. His actions impressed me and I have decided that he is everything that I want in a husband and he has been working hard to demonstrate to me that he is a responsible, hardworking adult. We have attended marriage counseling and we have also laid everything out on the table, such as religion, kids, money issues etc. That's all I have to say about my personal life. I understand people have different viewpoints about marriage, and I have spent many long nights weighing the possibilities. I am a very rational, practical individual. Therefore, whatever opinions someone may have about my marriage decision are irrelevant to the posts I will be making about my career experiences.

Now that I have gotten that out of the way, Monday was my last day at my job at the bookstore. Since I am undergoing the final stages of wedding planning, I thought it was best to leave then so that I would have time to get ready. There's a lot to be done when you are getting married, going on a honeymoon, and packing up all of your things for a one thousand mile trek down south. I did enjoy the comraderie I shared with my colleagues at my bookstore job. There was a strong sense of teamwork there and I never felt like I was completely on my own no matter what challenges the job threw at me. I am in the process of transferring the job to Florida. But I have not given the store in Florida a final word as to whether I will take the job. This goes back to the fact that although I did enjoy what we sold at the bookstore and the core values of the company, I am ready for change that will challenge me further in my career. I also do not think I'm cut out for retail. I have excellent customer service skills, but I felt like my position on the retail ladder was not making a strong enough impact on the world for which I could be proud.

In other words, I'm still looking for a position in Florida that will make me feel professional and able to use my skills to the fullest extent. I am searching for something in marketing and advertising since publishing jobs seem less common in the state of Florida. I am still waiting for a response from the Florida Department of Education as to whether I am qualified for a temporary teaching certificate. I am still hopeful and very flustered because of wedding plans. I am not sure when I will be able to post again. Probably in two weeks I will be back. Wish me luck!

Well, my interview should be tomorrow. I just have to wait for her to call in the morning and confirm it. I hope this is the kind of job that I am looking for. The opening is for a production assistant -- proofreading, office work, that kind of stuff. It should be some good experience in the publishing field. It doesn't require a degree for the job or much experience, so I'm really wondering about the salary. Also, it still has the downside of being in Honolulu; I hate driving it that city.

It's funny how life twists and turns. I graduated with a degree in communications (haha, what are you going to do with that?) with an emphasis in journalism. Come to discover my junior year that I really didn't like reporting too much. I prefer to work with words over people. So anyway, I graduate and I'm like, so what now? About a month later my college advisor emails me saying he knows someone looking for a proofreader. I wasn't quite sure what a proofreader did, but I decided it had to be better than my current job (food service). So I emailed her that night and got the job a few days later. I was so worried that I would hate it or worse not be good at it, but I discovered that I really liked it. Unfortunately, as I mentioned in previous post, I had to leave that job after only 5 months.

Now I back to looking for another entry level, please-just-give-me-a-chance job, but at least now I have direction. i want to be an editor for a publishing company. I guess I just hope that life hands you more than one great opportunity. Hopefully it true what they say: As one door closes, another one opens.

Do you want to earn your degree online for one third of the cost? Do you want to work for our company from your home in your underpants while getting paid over $100,000 a year? Do you want summers off, 27 weeks of vacation a year, with all the benefits and enough cash so you won't have to worry about Social Security like it itself is an elderly person on the brink of death?

Yeah, of course, we all want that. These messages somehow fill my multiple e-mail accounts on a daily basis. (I don't even give my e-mail out, geez those sly devils!) A lot of us are able to pick out the SPAM from the real e-mails, but as time progresses it seems like these offers are getting better and a little more believable. If they sound too good to be true, then they most likely are.

Sure, a lot of us are in tight spots with cash. Student loans are constantly haunting us like that pesky ghost that just won't seem to leave us alone no matter how many priests we get in there and no matter how many gallons of holy water they dump. Parents are getting older and can't wait until you have to start paying for them and repaying them for all the hard work they had to put into the lump of clay they call "You" to make you who you are today. University tuitions are always going up, with the prices of everything, while wages trail behind like a sick elephant.

It's no surprise there are tons of companies releasing these fake e-mails when the situation I described above exist all over the world. People are struggling, and desperate people might just think that the answer to all their troubles rests in that one, oddly misspelled, e-mail that just popped into their Inbox.

All in all, this is just a fair warning, be careful and use your best judgement. Unlike the fairytales, instead of getting a handfull of "magic beans" you might just get your identity stolen or your credit cards maxed out.

After coming to realize that I like order and control in my work environment (and in my life), and finding out that even when you do a good job for someone, they rarely take time to be appreciative, I've decided that I should strongly consider working for myself. It's not a concept I ever really considered before, so I'm going to have to think about who/what can help me understand what it's like. I'm sure there is a flip side to being your own boss and being in control of your work environment -- worry about the business side of things, responsibilities to employees, etc., which may outweigh the negatives of working for someone else. I'm not totally sure that anyone is ever really in control of their work situation anyway. There are so many variables and influences. Still, it's another path to consider and explore.

I have discovered something worse than the boss who never says 'please', 'thank you', or 'would you mind'. It his wife! As I've discussed, since the beginning of June, I've been filing and doing other clerical work for an insurance/investment agent. His backlog has kept me so busy that, although he originally intended to share me with others in his office, I've just now gotten him caught up.

Today, I was passed on to one of his co-workers, who also happens to be his wife. I thought the fact that he hadn't filed anything since October was bad! She hasn't done anything for the last 10 years except throw stuff into various files, the contents of which each have some mysterious link unknown and undeciperable by me. After 2 hours of sorting out just 1 file, I was scolded for not working fast enough! It's not easy sorting out 10 years of crap. If it was so important wouldn't someone in the last 120 months have organized it? As he was chastising me, I actually spoke up and said, "This is the worst filing system I've ever seen." I'm sure if it was someone other than his wife he might be a little more sympathetic, but she can do no wrong.

I was told yesterday that they didn't want me working any more than 40 hours over the next two weeks. July 28th is to be my last day. Since she is resigning, with her last day to be August 15th. ALL of this mess has to be done in the final 28 of my work hours. I am an earnest, hard-working employee, not a miracle worker. I honestly don't know what's worse -- being thought to be a plodding slug, or working faster and doing a crap job that they'll complain about long after I go. I think I'll be a slug. Hopefully they'll remember the quality of what I did.

I just wanted to warn everyone about a new scam tactic hackers are employing on online users. On Sunday, I was discussing the new pay per post opportunity with my mother. At first, I thought it might be something to consider, but she thought otherwise. We both had concerns about giving away personal information online, especially a social security number; after all, you hear so much about identity theft these days. After our conversation, I decided not to follow through with this idea. I think it must have been a combination of God, the spoken word in church, and my mother that led me to the Sunday paper. I was looking through the business section and I found an article I had to share with all of you, my fellow interns. It said that a bunch of emails recently surfaced to computers appearing to come from a company who may claim this pay per post opportunity. Apparently, there have been problems with people's accounts from these "phishing" emails. These type of emails usually ask online users to click an email link, which leads them to a phony website to steal their personal information. But now, hackers are trying to use phones to gain this information, since people are wising up to bogus emails.

From a conversation with my mom to a Sunday newspaper article, it was truly amazing how I received confirmation on my decision not to participate in this act of fraud. I'm thankful that I did not have to learn a hard lesson by having my personal ID stolen; this will make me more alert in the future of other online opportunities, as I'm sure it will for all of you.

After the past few days, I think there is nothing more exhausting and nerve-wracking than working out your 2 weeks notice, especially when you're leaving a "real job." Maybe extra especially when your bosses are the owners of the company. They have actually been really nice about it, saying they understand and that everyone should be doing what they want to be doing. I know they've noticed the tension and my frustration with my position there, and it really has nothing to do with them as managers or people. Well, they do micromanage me more than I prefer, but I think all small business owners are likely to be like that. They want a hand in every aspect of the business, constantly, and they're always changing directions to grow and stay afloat. And they make it personal.

That's the one thing about working for a Mom and Pop --- and leaving a Mom and Pop especially --- is that they make it very personal, and it shouldn't be. Business can be influenced by the personal certainly, but at the end of the day, it should be business. Sure, I choose a job based on what's fun and interesting to do and the kind of people I'll be working with, but at the end of the day, it's really about the health of my career, the opportunities it will open, and the growth and accomplishments it will allow me.

So, it was really just that I wasn't cut out for the job. I'm not a good assistant of any kind. I have no trouble working with others or even reporting to a manager, but I do have trouble with not being given the big picture, not being given a set of deadlines and personal goals that I can meet or exceed, and being constantly switching projects, switching direction, and not given any real independence. I need to be able to assert myself, think up creative solutions, implement them, and excel. Or fail, if that's what happens, and then move on. I know I can do that on a "team," too, as long as there's a clear expectation of my contribution and role.

How can you really begin and establish a career if you're being constantly pulled off projects before you can allow them to be successful, if your business is constantly changing its goals (besides the "just make money" goal), and you know that your contributions -- which are really appreciated by your bosses -- won't really matter in the fields you want to go into? You just can't.

It's hard when you're leaving not to make it about every little thing that ever bothered you, but that's not really why I'm leaving. I'm leaving because it's not the job, not the field, and not the place for me. Even that's hard to explain without sounding bad or hurting their feelings, so you wind up talking in platitudes --- "It was an offer I couldn't refuse" or "It was just a really great place" --- and hoping nobody asks the deep questions. In the end what it really boils down to is something they could have accommodated (though even then I can't guarantee how long I'd stay) but even if they ask, I can't tell them that. I know they'd just get mad.

How could they have accomodated it? Well, it's something Geena Davis's new VP said on that short-lived television show about a female president --- "If you want someone worth a damn in this job, you've got to make the job worth a damn." (I didn't even watch that show much, but that line has always stuck with me for some reason.) He was talking about having his own area of responsibility where he could really manage it without a huge amount of influence from her, and that's exactly what I wanted. It's also why I like sales. Sales managers are usually pretty hands off once you get good at your job, because the #1 thing they want is good numbers.

So, handling the big "WHY?" is extremely difficult, and there's only so much avoiding you can do. Avoiding the question for 80+ hours over two weeks sure isn't easy.

P.S. Sorry to quote a television show. I try not to. ;)

I have begun to look back over the summer and what I've learned about the world of work and what I've learned about myself. First and foremost, I've learned that the people I know actually have contacts with a lot of other people. A simple phone call to an individual to see if he knew anyone that needed some office help actually netted me a job -- with him! It has surprised and amazed me, just by mentioning a certain topic, or asking a certain question,how the ripple effect begins. For example, after spending a year on the team, and having daily contact with her, I never knew the pitching coach for my collegiate team had very close ties to the owner of professional baseball team, or that her landlord had previously played professional sports. Why would I? But a chance comment brought all that information forward. It goes to show you that what your mother always said was true, "Behave because you never know who might be watching."

I also learned a lot about myself. I don't do so well when things are hectic. I like things orderly and organized. It's easier for me to get up and go to work if everything else in my life is under control. I mentioned previously that I didn't mind the mundane task of filing. Again, it's orderly. While I don't see myself as rigid, I now know that I probably wouldn't enjoy a job with a lot of loose ends all the time.

I guess when I think about it, I was one of the instructors at camp that tried to maintain order. (There's a theme here.) It's not a popular position to be in, particularly when you have no authority, and the person who does makes idle threats. When the 16 and 17 year olds soaked the floor of the dorm with an inch of water, I was the one who made them clean it up before they went to their next session. Another counselor's response (immature in my opinion) was to steal all of their clothes and string their underwear up the flagpole. To me that only perpetuated the cylce of bad behavior.

One of the things I did learn by coaching at camp will serve me well as I work with others, and eventually have others reporting to me. Before we began, our coaches sat all of the instructors down and talked to us about how to talk to the campers. They cautioned us to not say "don't" as we were trying to teach; that telling them what not to do isn't helpful. Instead the explained that we needed to use phrases like "You need to," "Try to," "I'd like for you to," and so on. Those phrases are certainly good advice to use in dealing with almost everyone.

Lastly, although I've had a lifetime of taking direction from other people, actually having a boss was somehow different. After parents, teachers, and a variety of coaches through the years, you'd think it would be easy for me to take direction. I struggled early on with the demanding nature of the requests that my boss makes. It's improved, but he still makes me clench my teeth most of the time when he tells me my schedule or gives me something new to do. Without a doubt there are bosses much, more worse out there -- but I won't have to be one of them when I have individuals reporting to me!

I've recently reaquainted myself with a girl that was a year ahead of me in high school. We were never really friends but have come to find that we probably should have been. So we've been talking a lot and getting to know each other as we are now. It turns out that she graduated with a degree in English from my alma mater and has also found it incredibly difficult to find work in our area. She left the state and moved to North Carolina for a couple of years and has just recently returned to open a business with her brother. She is lucky enough to have parents with the means to accomodate such endeavors. This is all beside the point, however. During a long conversation that she and I had the other day she told me how easy it was for her to get a job in North Carolina. She had just as much (if not a little less) experience than I have now and she got a job teaching high school. Apparently there is no need for a teaching certificate in North Carolina. While she was getting paid to teach she was also attending classes for teachers that the school paid for. I was pretty shocked at all of this and this lead us to why it's so difficult to get a job here. Everybody in this area is too damned educated! People with Ph. D's are getting the jobs that people with BA's should be getting and people with BA's won't take anything less. We're either too educated or not educated enough for this area.

So I've decided to move. I'm not sure when or where yet but it will be somewhere far less educated than here. I will probably have to sacrifice good conversation and friends with a general understanding of, well, things, but a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do.

I'm going to keep living with my parents and working at the paper and the restaraunt and save my money and get outta Dodge as fast as my resume and pocketbook will let me and hopefully my idea works and I don't get stuck in a dead-end job far away from all the other really smart people with dead-end jobs.

I have to stay in motion and if I just sit around here waiting for something to find me I'm going to be waiting a long time.

After reading a number of the entries posted in this blog, I have reached the not-so-startling conclusion that I am unlike any of the other authors. For one, most of the unemployed bloggers seem incredibly anxious and driven in their pursuit to find a job. Those who are currently employed seemed to share similar sentiments when recalling their fulfilling career quests. I, on the other hand, have no real interest in finding a job. Now don’t get me wrong, I’m ambitious and motivated (enough) and would like nothing more than to have a successful career and everything that comes along with it (like the ability to pay rent). But after graduating a couple of months ago, I’ve been starting to have some serious doubts about my professional life.

My two roommates, who are both recent college graduates, have jobs. One of them gets up every morning at six to drive to the Valley and sit in a cubicle where he proceeds to complete a bevy of tedious, mind-numbing tasks. My other roommate works for some sort of production company, where he spends all day dubbing VHS tapes and then tells every girl he meets at a bar that he is an “editor”. They both make enough money to live comfortably, but are they really comfortable?
I’m 23 now. An adult. I understand the responsibilities that come with that title. I understand that one day I’m going to have to really settle down and get serious. I might even consider breaking up with my xbox 360 and getting involved in a real relationship, but I want to make sure that I’m ready. During my last week of school, one of my professors spent the entire class period appealing to the kid in us all. Warning us that this may be the last time in our lives that we will be free, unattached and essentially liberated to do whatever we choose. He challenged us to travel, to experience life in a way that you only can when you’re young. He cautioned against falling into an unfulfilling job just to pay the rent. To him, there is no bigger waste of youth. Since then I have spent an inordinate amount of time thinking about what my professor said (what else am I going to do, I don’t have a job). What if I take one of these mediocre jobs just because I’m grown up and that’s what grown ups do. Then what happens if I wake up tomorrow and ten years has gone by and I’m still stuck in this job that I know will never make me happy because how could I have known what I wanted to do when I was only 23? Am I really going to sacrifice my youth? Am I really going to waste the best time of life working?
Unfortunately, the answer is probably yes. With the inevitability of adulthood breathing down my neck (mostly in the form of a very new, very large rent payment that for some reason I thought I could afford), it looks like I’m going to have to settle down and get a job. At first I thought that I should try to get a job that was fun, something not too serious that wouldn’t take up much of my time. During this general pursuit I ended up with job bouncing at a bar in Santa Monica. And just for the record, I was never one of those lame bouncers who takes their job entirely too seriously. I never looked at an ID for longer than 2 seconds and I didn’t carry myself with that incredibly exaggerated sense of self-importance that you seem to find in most bouncers. I like to think that I was a friendly and affable bouncer. The job seemed ok at first, but then after I while I realized that spending your weekend nights working might be the only way to waste your youth more effectively than spending your days holed up in some office. Seemingly out of options, it looks the search for a real job is about to being. Holla…

I have an interview for a non-profit organization this week, which I got through a friend's mother. Thing is, I know I need a job, and I want employment, so would it be so wrong to turn down an offer (and this is making the far-reaching assumption that I get the job) in a field that may be profitable, but not for me? At what age is it necessary to throw in the towel and just "sell your soul"?


Anyone else have this same experience, where you're less than enthusiastic about the offers you're receiving, but feel pressure to take the job nonetheless?

Eager college students spend thousands of dollars of their parent’s money or go into years of debt just to earn that coveted degree in their field of choice. Upon graduation, recent college grads send out resumes by the dozen as they aspire to get hired by their dream jobs. They expect that these employers will jump at the chance to hire such a well-educated and motivated individual.

Sadly, the prerequisite to landing that perfect job after you leave college isn’t just an education in combination with honor roll grades. As trite as it is to say, it’s all about who you know.

When I first enrolled at University A, my mindset was focused on the narrow path of classes and grades. Now, nearing graduation I am learning something far more valuable than my very expensive time spent in the classroom. The successful people you know in your field of choice are your golden ticket to that ideal career, contrary to what the professors tell you.

Currently I am a senior at University A and a journalism major. I am no longer desperately and entirely focused on that 4.0 GPA. I wholeheartedly believe that the only way I can get my foot in the door at any respectable job after college is to meet the right people NOW. So, the new plan of attack is to bombard the successful people I know in journalism with my talents and eagerness to dive right into this challenging field, and send them into overload by the repetition of my name and accomplishments thus far. Wish me luck getting my foot in the door!

How’s about that? A post-undegrad writing intern who uses his blog to promote his own book. Hey—why not. I’ll take what I can get.

And so should you. It’s out there. Right now! So check it out.

Truth be told, its gotten rejected from a good 40 agents and publishers now. Am I bitter? Hell no.

www.lulu.com/content/366324

Think about it this way—if I got signed to some big fat contract with a publisher, you and I wouldn’t be able to enjoy this book now. We’d have to wait a year. A YEAR! Maybe even longer! The pain would be unbearable. And so what if there was a chance for me to hit it big? What the hell do I care? If someone reads it, likes it, laughs their ass off, then I’m a happy camper.

So let’s go camping.

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Tales of a True American: The Legend of Badass Kyle Lewis 2003-2006.
Adieu.

Hey, PS! Check out Cheesehead! Insert: yellow blob and link. The company that says they’ll pay you 5 bucks for posting their ad and never follows through.

Well, I got an email today from an employer and it wasn't a thanks for applying but there were many qualified... response. She actually said she would call me today to set up an interview. I'm so nervous. Of course the job is in Honolulu, which means sitting in tons of traffic both to and from work, and spending more money on gas (over $3 a gallon here.) So it all depends on details if I actually take the job, but I'm getting ahead of myself here. She hasn't even called yet...

It's been two months already since I graduated college. Two whole months of job searching, writing, and getting blown off by potential employers.
I was always under the assumption that if you get a degree in college, employers will throw jobs at you. Heck, that's half the reason of why I went. Yet, here I am now, sitting in my grandparent's basement with nothing to do in the forseeable future.
I have applied to more places than I can count. After two months, my wallet has been hurting, so I started to apply for part time jobs as well. You know, a job's a job. Plus, I really just need something until I can get something published. Hopefully. Maybe.
Getting a job isn't a simple thing in the modern world.
Everything is completely done with computers. I have walked into over a dozen places, dressed up nicely and asking for any job to be told to go online and apply that way. Basically, getting a job is so impersonal that I never get to the interview phase. Of course, all the websites say I need to wait 90 days before trying to contact anyone.

Anyway, I guess it's back to the job search with me. Anyone have any cool hobbies I can pick up in my free time?

Those are the stats of my most recent job search, and I was lucky enough to find a real bonafide awesome entry-level professional job. It's a sales job (account executive) in media/advertising, working with a publishing company, so it plays to all my strengths and also provides a pretty solid foundation for future growth, assuming I perform well within the job. I've always done well in a sales enviornment before, so I'm fairly optimistic. Actually, I'm downright giddy. The company has an awesome culture, a really cool mix of small and large company (it's a small property, owned by a larger company), and excellent benefits, though those won't kick in for the requisite 90 days.

I haven't written in awhile because of the job search. Well, partially. I haven't written for about two months. The first month was a month of fairly serious depression --- feeling like my current job didn't play to my strengths, allow me as great an opportunity to grow and perform, and feeling like I couldn't do anything about it. Then, I decided to. I went from "casual" job hunting to active job hunting. It took about three solid weeks of cold calling, resume fixing, and intense interviewing.

The actual stats are 25 Days, 32 Interviews, 18 Positions, 16 Companies. Working full time still, and 12 days of antibiotics (for pnemonia and bronchitus) during the end of my search. Incidentially, I was at my sickest when I went in for the first in-person interview for the job I eventually took.

For the most part, I took every interview I got, whether I really wanted the job or not (except for the truly random and completely unsolicited --- you know, the life insurance companies you've never heard of who send out bulk e-mails, etc). Some of them were companies I loved but jobs (data entry for a huge publishing giant with a great reputation) I really didn’t want. Some of them were for jobs that sounded fun but companies that sounded just as small and disorganized (marketing director for a small land development company that had a good track record but was facing a slowing market) as my current company.

The job I got was exactly what I was looking for --- or at least I think it will be. I don't start for another few weeks, and I'm still in the middle of my notice, helping hire my replacement, and tying up loose ends.

A few more stats:
Offers Received (in writing): 2 (including the chosen one)
Offers Received (verbal, not in writing) 1
Still Interviewing With at Time of Acceptance: 5 companies
Standard Rejection Letters (from companies I'd interviewed with): 3 e-mails, 1 card
No Call, No News: 3 Companies
Phone Calls From Recruiters to Hear the Job Was Filled: 1 Company/Position

I feel like a professional interviewer after these whirlwind weeks, but I feel pretty darn good, too. The hiring manager told me the job I'll be doing has been open since October, and I was the first person he extended an offer to. (And this is not an obscure company.) Of course, he's a salesperson, so he may be stretching it a bit. But I was surprised to see how many respondents are applying for my current/old job. When I was hired at my current-soon-to-be-former company, they told me over 100 people had applied and that they'd interviewed dozens before hiring me. I thought they were exaggerating, but I'm starting to see the resumes pile in and schedule the interviews.

I'm glad I didn't realize exactly how daunting it is out there until after I found something! I really wish luck to all of you still looking. I plan on keeping my resume updated and building my network over the next few years, even though I probably won't be looking to jump. (I pledged a one year commitment to this new job, and I plan to probably stay 2-3 years before really looking outside, if it works out.) Anyway, I have a ton of interview experiences and thoughts to share, and I'll actually have some from the other side soon (since my boss just asked me today if I wanted to be the one to interview my replacement --- and I think that sounds fun). So, I'm sure I'll be posting more. Hopefully, all of you will find your own success stories and be as happy as I am.

The one thing I've learned --- not just from job-hunting but from life in total --- is that you have to make things happen. No matter how impossible it seems, you always can. Sounds cliche and a little bit obvious, but I actually think 80-90% of the people out there don't bother to really make things happen, so it automatically puts you into a pretty high percentile if you can take that attitude and always go the extra mile.

My recent experiences on the job search have unveiled this new phenomenon called the "group interview." Is this a red light for suspicion or the new thing in the job market?
My first group interview proved to be the former as far as I'm concerned. When I arrived, there were about five other young recent graduates, and one senior in college. Later, an older woman showed up tardy. The session was hosted by two managers who explained a little about the position, more about the company, and then forced us to perform these torturous role playing tactics. Halfway through the interview, I was convinced that sales would be the major focus of the job, and I was clearly not interested in selling--which is why I had come in the first place since there was no mention of a selling aspect previously. The position was equivalent to that of those gifted and aggressive fitness club reps who get you to sign your soul away in return for some lousy gym membership that most people never use. (I happen to by an avid gym member, but only because I chose to be; however, I have been subjected to a deceitful gym contract in the past--so I speak from personal experience and do not knock those who, like me, actually do enjoy being physically fit.)
In the end, I was not offered a position and I was fine with that. Once again, though, it seems I will be attending a group interview/informational session for a position. I am very suscpious of the job now, but of course I will see it through--if only to gain some more experience in job hunting.
When I mention these group interviews to older career people, or to my peers, most are confused by this bizarre event. If the position is worth it, as well as the candidate, then why would a company have to kill all the birds with the same stone so to speak? And what kind of job recruiting requires a mass interview to produce results?
I hope I am overanalyzing, but I am becoming very skeptical of these circumstances.

I have an interview on Monday from 7-9 at night. Is that weird? I began questioning whether I misunderstood or not. I am almost certain I was told "Monday night;" however, a.m. or p.m. was never officially established.

I recently became an army wife and moved with my new husband to Hawaii. Now I know that sounds wonderful (as everyone told me upon hearing about it) but it's really nothing special. I'm sure Hawaii is a lovely vacation spot, but living here is like living anywhere else. You still have to get a job and pay the bills. Being a college graduate, I am frustrated with the less than ideal job market.

Through some networking I landed an entry level editorial job with the opportunity for promotion where I used to live. Now I'm in the middle of an island where I don't know anyone, working in retail at a dead-end job. I don't know how to start networking in a new place so that I can find a better job. Just applying with a resume and cover letter isn't cutting it, especially since I have very little experience. On top of that, Hawaii seems to a be a very local-friendly place. I'm worried that I won't find a job in my field and will waste valuable time in getting my career started. This may be a long three years in paradise.

In my quest to look for a job I have had individuals, real ones mind you not some computer generated messages, ask me if I had considered filling out surveys for money. I had heard of doing this before. I have some friends who actually do this, but whether or not they have actually been paid or not they never said. It is amazing the power of suggestion because perhaps a day later, I got an email from a company (most likely automated) saying they had read my resume and wanted me to fill out an application to their company to complete surveys for money. The difference between them and others, so they said, was that they did not ask for you to pay any money to them like other survey companies ask. I looked over their website. Apparently, you get paid $30 per hour to fill out a survey and the occasional $50 per hour. The kicker is that they already determine how long the survey should take before you even decide to take it, so if they think that the survey would only take 30 minutes they would pay you accordingly. I'm sure that is to avoid someone sitting in front of the computer for hours procrastinating on the survey trying to log up hours and money.

However, how legit are these survey jobs? How would an employer look at them if you were to list it on your resume? What kind of experience would that be considered?

Part of the responsibilities of being an instructor at softball camp this past week did actually involve coaching. I enjoyed being able to encourage, instruct, and motivate the girls with whom I worked. It was fun and gratifying to see the concentration on their faces as they worked to implement even small improvements. Unfortunately that was tempered with the incredibly frustrating task of trying to keep control of the campers when they weren't on the field. I thought it would be the younger kids -- 10 through 13 or so that would be the problem. It wasn't. It was the older kids, 16 and 17 year olds that decided it was a good idea to pelt the younger kids with water balloons, and to remove the large trash can from the contraption in the bathroom, fill it with water, and then douse two of the other counselors with it, leaving an inch of water on the hallway floor. We had water activities planned for them after the last session of the day. Couldn't they wait? I know I'm not that much older than they are, but I guarantee I NEVER acted like that a camp. I had respect for the counselors and respect for the fact that it was other people's property.

Nothing we as a group of counselors did seemed to make a difference. One of the head coaches sat them down the first night and talked to them about appropriate behavior, and did so again the second night. I know making threats and not following through is a waste of breath, but all that was left was to send them home. That wasn't a decision I or any of the other instructors could make, and the coaching staff chose to deal with it via tepid threats that didn't work.

I'll obviously have to do a lot more work with kids to find what works for me to establish rapport and respect. On the field I had it, but off the field it evaporated. Still, overall it was a positive experience that I now plan to participate in each year that I'm able. I may even see if I can be a guest instructor at some other camps as well.

I had an interview with a major publishing house on Monday. This is what I've been waiting for! Somebody finally gave my resume a chance and I was hoping that they would meet me and give me a chance. The interview went great! He said some really positive things as he walked me out and I thought for sure that I would at least move on to the second interview. On Tuesday I got the call. Unfortunately, I was unable to talk to him because I was at work and couldn't answer my phone but he left a message. The message told me that he really enjoyed talking to me and meeting me but unfortunately he was unable to ask me to come for a second interview. I was really bummed out. I thought for sure that this was it, my foot in the door. It was for a sales job but he had told me that if there was ever a position open in one of the editorial offices I'd already have a better chance of getting the position than people who didn't work for the company. I had myself all excited thinking that my life could finally start! This is my career! Not just another job. I e-mailed my interviewer and asked him what I could do differently next time. He said nothing. I was great, I handled the interview process extremely well, and the only reason he didn't ask me to the second interview was my lack of experience. The two people that he asked on had been doing this for years and already knew some of the clients. He encouraged me to continue pursuing a career in publishing. He said that I had the right personality for it and that I would do well in publishing. He also told me to keep in touch and use him as a reference if I needed to.

So I suppose I will continue waitressing and living with my parents. I am working part-time at the newspaper in town. It's a small publication but they're teaching me things that I would never learn anywhere else (except school!) and I'm helping out with the advertising. I guess another year of this and I'll have enough experience, that is if I don't go crazy first.

I ended up not getting the job at the design firm. I really thought I was in, since the last portion of the interview was shootin' the bull with the company prez. We seemed to have really great chemistry, everyone who worked there seemed really great. But, alas, I got the dreaded "You have exceptional skills and it was a very difficult decision, but we have decided to go with another candidate. We wish you the best of luck in your future endeavors." Bonus: I got this in an e-mail and in a lovely and oh-so-proper "Thank you for interviewing with us" card.

I'm not a religious person, but, I have recently adopted the philosophy: When one door closes, another one opens.

And it's true. I'm finding that out very quickly.

A few months ago, I stumbled upon a website "For college students, by college students." I joined the mailing list, and last month received a newsletter saying that they were accepting submissions of whatever we brilliant college students could conjure up in our drunken little heads. I perused the site again, and came up with a great idea for a monthly column. I e-mailed a proposal to one of the editors, not really thinking that they would make a big deal out of it. I went on about my business, and not more than a week later received an e-mail from an editor praising the idea. They want it to be a weekly column, and I'm getting paid $50 for each article. (Note: the newsletter stated that writers wouldn't be paid/hired unless their work was submitted more than once.)

One more fabulous writing gig to add to my resume. Not having to relocate for this job is a major plus, seeing as how I have maybe $60 to my name. But, it could (and hopefully will) lead to greater opportunities. Nevermind my dad thinks it's a giant scam and nothing to be excited about. But, that's another blog.

I have also decided to apply to Portfolio school for copywriting. I have found one school in particular I have fallen for and want to start the beginning of 2007. That's right, I'm looking into the glamourous world of advertising.

On a sidenote, I have an interview for a paralegal position (ugh!) tomorrow afternoon. It should pay decent, so I can start saving for the big move (wherever, whenever that will be).

No more being depressed about my future. One's future is what one makes of it, right? Now is the time to get those connections, internships, freelance work, whatever. I'm anything but a conventional chick, so I'm just going to grab the bull by the horns and do it. Go for it. Whatever "it" is.

We all figure it out, eventually.

"What I wouldn't give to be in your position, with the world at your feet."


"Enjoy this time. Read a book."


"Before you know it, you'll have a job and regret it."


Oh the advice, it is chipping away at my patience bit by bit. People forget that job searching is tough, it is disillusioning, it is fiercely competitive, and it is far, far from "the best time of my life". I most definitely do not have "an endless web of career choices to choose from". The world is not "at my feet". (In fact, the only thing at my feet are my dirty Chuck Taylors with the holes in the bottom which I just can't afford to replace on my jobless salary. Those and a pile of crumpled cover letter drafts.) Employers are not banging at my door, offering me their first born child to take on that stress-free six-figure job. Why so surprised?


I can handle the endless, mindless cover letter rewrites, the chipper networking notes, the following up, and the letting down. But the vapid advice for which I've been a recepticle for the past 2 months, that I am losing tolerance for. Therefore, to the 35s and over who think this is a time I will one day remember fondly, the jumping off point to a career that will bring me any level of wealth and happiness that I may desire, please, please please, try to remember your first job search. The feelings of desperation, and the dark worry that maybe your dreams may never depart from your fantasies. For now, for the sake of my sanity, just keep the advice to yourself.


Phew. (I'm not bitter, just spread thin.)

Anyone who has ever been on a college campus has probably heard of Career Services. Their office posts enough flyers around every location, wasting enough paper to probably kill an entire forest, to attempt to get students to use their services. Many students don't tend to bother with their office but they should. Career Services offers a multitude of services dealing with resumes, career opportunities and lists of internships.

In my college career, I avoided Career Services like the creepy old guy's house in everybody's neighborhood where you heard the pigs squealing and Michael Bolton music - you all know the place. Just as I graduated though, I signed up for their mailing list of potential positions for employment and it's a really great feature. They have information not available to most people, so please, learn from my mistake and get involved early. I got my internships by going around to various journalism businesses and asking around, but why get them the hard way when you could have a nifty list displaying all the internships available?

Plus, if you're attending college then part of that bill is paying for Career Services to operate on your campus, so you might as well take advantage of it, unless you like wasting money of course.

Today is the second day of training on my new assignment. It's a standard call center environment, but it requires serious troubleshooting. It will actually go a long way toward making me a better reporter because it will help me to be a better listener. Someone once said that listening is an art; so is writing. As a journalism major, the one art is invaluable to the improvement of the other.

I just hope I don't screw it up.

Initiative is hard to put into practice sometimes especially when jealousy and/or “fairness” get in its way. I admit that it is nice to have all employees involved in a given project so that all have a chance to take the leadership position, but let’s face it—not all participants on the team have what it takes to produce a satisfactory product. In the “real” real world there are CEOs, Presidents, VPs, Partners, Managers etc. and all of these people got to these positions of power and prestige because they took initiative at one point in their careers and went above and beyond what was expected of them. Surely what makes them excel, and the people who work under them respect them, is that they understand the importance of working in a team, listening to opinions and making sure that everyone is listened to (we’ll assume this is a perfect world).

Taking all of these factors into account I was recently the witness of an incident at work where one employee consistently takes initiative and is respected and revered by her superiors, yet her peers take offense at this at the same time. Her employees wonder why it is SHE who is always put in charge of “special projects,” why the supervisors always run to HER when there are duties to attend to and trust that SHE will get the job done. What these same peers fail to realize is that it is SHE who questions how things are done at the company and volunteers to create an easier or more efficient way to do the same things. SHE is the one that goes above and beyond what is written in her job description to do extra work, and is happy to do it.

So the question here is should the company “play fair” and let everyone have a chance to lead special projects or should that be limited to the people (here person) who comes up with novel ideas, puts them into practice, adequately and timely, and has more experience on the job? I am an advocate of fairness, yet I know that in the working world when it comes to getting the job done it is not all about fairness and making sure that everyone “gets a chance” so to speak. Sure in grade school the teacher let us all have a turn as group leader, or to be captain when playing “capture the flag” but in the working world it is, as the old saying goes, the early bird that catches the worm. If that wasn’t the case then there would be no need for CEOs, Presidents, VPs, Partners nor Mangers etc. we would all be equal, have the same duties. No one would be rewarded for thinking outside of the box because the entire group would get credit for it. We would not have to worry about taking initiative; there would be no such word.

I’m not arguing which world is better; I’m just noting that the former world is the world that we live in. Initiative is rewarded, and sometimes jealousy between co-workers is an unfortunate result. However, if one would like the perks of taking initiative such as respect from superiors, bonuses, and promotions, one has to put it into practice. Instead of, as the aforementioned employees have done, waiting around for a chance you expect to come to you, because “fairness” is not always a crucial ingredient in the working world.


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Okay, round one goes to the kids. In the first 24 hours of camp, I've been spit on from four stories up, I've been nailed in the head with a nerf football thrown at close range, I've been lathered up with soap, and I've had to discreetly remove a large banner on which 11 and 12 year olds had drawn what they said were "butt holes". I ask myself how it is that they have the time to do this, since we were on the field from 4 to 530 and from 7 to 830 last night and again today from 9 to 12 and 2 to 415.

Although the other counselors and I are simply following the schedule given, we all feel like there needs to be more structure so these guys can't create havoc. The schedule was created by people who have their own children -- what were they thinking???? I'm hopeful that as I get to know some of these campers that I can gain some respect and squelch some of the bad behavior, but I'm thinking it might already be too late! Maybe in tomorrow's blog I can focus on the actual coaching aspect instead of 'crowd control'!

This past weekend some friends and I were discussing stress and the workplace, and how to deal with it. One of my friends works at a financial institution and absolutely hates her job. When she first started last summer she was bubbling with excitement, couldn’t wait to get to work everyday. Now she’s a different story. Dealing with people and their money is a very detailed job. Your clients can be some of the worst people you have ever met or never met. You have to deal with irate people all day everyday. How long do you wait before leaving a job because your clients get on your last nerve? Or do you just deal with it thinking that these are just the people that I have to take of?




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Well, you did it. You donned the navy blue suit with your portfolio in tow and yeilded all the questions about why you deserve this job, which has in the past few days become your Dream Job. It seems like everything will fall into place once you hear the phone ring with an offer.
Except it doesn't ring.
Over a week has gone by since my interview for the first job I really want. My mornings are spent by the phone, my afternoons watching for a rejection letter in the mail. I've both emailed and telephoned my polite thanks, yet no response. I know it is now in the hands of Human Resources, and I pray that they are on vacation. Surely they wouldn't toy with my delicate post-grad hopes so callously.
I tell myself a week is not so long, and ignore the fact that they told me I should hear something within three days.
I resume my job search, but nothing else looks as good or seems as attainable. I write this blog so I have something else to add to my resume. I wake up hoping for a phone call, and go to bed telling myself "Tomorrow".

I've had a pretty rough time searching for jobs over the past year. I've been able to find part time work here and there to keep me afloat, but I have yet to find a full time position that is right for me. Reaching the point of desparation, I applyed at a local video store and got an interview right away. I was offered a shift manager position, at a rate $.75 above minimum wage. They say that beggars can't be choosers, but if I took that job it would revert my earning potential to where I was 7 years ago.
I respectfully had to decline the position, despite my desparation. It was an excellent experience, however. I learned it is important to know what you want and need and make sure you don't settle, at least not too much. There are tons of opportunities out there that may not be right for you, but there are also tons that are. Keep your eyes open, take in all you can, but don't forget to hold out for your standards. It doesn't hurt to go after what doesn't look like it fits you, because you never know until you try. And if it still isn't for you, you will be better for the experience.


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I was interested to see Ashleigh H.'s post about being more exhausted after a 9 to 5 of filing than she was when she worked 12 to 16 hour days. It just goes to prove that there is something for everyone out there. I've done almost nothing but filing for my summer job. Although I certainly DON'T want to make a career out of it, I enjoy the methodical nature of it and the fact that I can actually see that I've accomplished something at the end of the day. I guess I must be anal retentive or something, because after spending hours on end trying to get the guy I work for caught up (yes, when I started in June he hadn't filed anything since October), I usually wish he would have extended my hours for the day so I could have gotten just a little more done. The experience has taught me that when I do look for a career rather than just a job, I want something with definition rather than something loose and free-flowing. Not a bad lesson for a simple summer job.

In response to one of my very early blogs, a comment was written that I should try coaching in order to implement my love of and experience with sports into a job opportunity. Today I'm going to try that out by being an instructor at a youth softball camp. Although most coaching jobs are volunteer positions, I will get paid a stipend for this. In addition, since this is a fundraiser for the college program that I play for, it will allow the coaches to see me in a different light. Hopefully I find out that it's something I enjoy. I'm not sure about the age group -- I've never really been good with elementary or middle school kids, but we'll see how I do. There will be some high school age players attending, but I don't know who I'll be assigned to yet. It's hard for me to imagine that I'm now old enough for someone to look up to the way I looked up to my instructors when I went to camp. I still remember a few of them and the impact they had on my softball career. I hope I can do the same.

Just to confirm all your fears—to all you artists out there, yes, it is difficult to get a job in art. It takes a lot and, unfortunately, people you know are as important as your skills. There are those who are lucky and are the exception, but the majority of us who are “good” vs. “stellar” at art are going to need both talent and luck.

I find myself in the position of being depressed and down on myself as a result of this struggle. I also find my interests wander, and that can be both good and bad, as I may be able to do a lot of things but I am not great at anything. And maybe you have been in the position, like me, where for the most part, people say they like, or even love, your art, but you are still waiting for that job offer. And, you see so many wonderful artists all over the web who are stellar and feel you cannot compete.

I cannot say that I wasn’t ever offered jobs, however, they weren’t what I was looking for, for one reason or another, and didn’t capitalize on my current skills. I find myself realizing that no matter how many software programs I know, or how great my figure drawing skills are, I need to know MORE programs, and need to be an expert in drawing furnature! It’s really a never-ending learning process. A degree is, therefore, no guarantee of anything, in case you were wondering.

I also realized I don’t want my job to run me, be my ‘be all and end all’, which so many people end up doing. And they end up hating their jobs. And just dread waking up to go to work, and only look forward to coming home.

You spend the majority of your waking hours at work, as well as a good chunk of your life, so I would think you should like what you do and not be in it for the money. Is that THAT difficult of a concept? It seems so. Hey, if you can get both, great! But I would aim for being somewhere you can at least tolerate, if your situation allows.

You’re out job hunting and you have submitted your resume to every place you can possibly think of, trying to find a job in your chosen field. You get your daily email from different websites and companies stating the jobs that they are posting. As you are checking your email you get a message about job that has nothing to do with your degree but yet, they tell you ‘We think you have some qualities that we are looking for in an employee.’ After doing some research on a company you decide that you will see what they have to offer. Do you accept the current job offer or do you wait and see if you can find something in your field? What helps you decide to take a job that is unrelated to your degree?

I recently went to a work shop on job interviewing and recieved some very helpful tips that I wanted to share with someone that may not have the time, or the resources to check it out on their own.
1. Change your "Objective" part on your resume with each pending job request, unless, of course, you are applying for the same exact position across the board. The teacher suggested setting up a sales resume, an administrative resume, etc, on your PC, so that you can munipulate them to serve your cause. For instance, on your sales resume you'd make your objective catered towards sales, and make sure to include more details of your sales background, etc.

2. If you aren't sure what to put in that "Objective" field, look online! Google sample resumes, they will lead you in the right direction and let you know what companies are looking for in a polished resume!


3. Also, when you're asked the questions suring the interview, stay positive! You do not get ahead by rolling over on your old bosses work ethic. And if asked hypotheticals like, "What do you think was the most menial job you've ever had" Your answer is NONE of them, they all provided you with viable work experience!

4. If they ask you why you left your old job, make sure to give them a good reason, but don't name drop or blame shift. Also, if you are forced to say something negative, end it on a positive note. People tend to remember the last thing you said.

Hope these tips help! They certainly made a lot of sense to me!

A common practice many of us do every day is complaining about something. Whether it be about the coldness of your recently purchased fast food French fries to the horrible habits of an ex girlfriend or boyfriend, you probably complain more than you think.

During a job interview, however, suppress it. Suppress it more than you've ever suppressed anything in your life. (This will be harder for some than others.) The last item on your potential employer's "What I Want To Hear" list is your complaints in life, but especially that of previous employers.

An employer will most certainly ask about previous job experiences. He or she will ask about what you liked about your previous job, what you didn't like about the job and what exactly you did at your last job, but this isn't a free question where you get rant about how much of an (insert explicative here) he or she was. They want to hear logical explanations, thought out reasons, and nonbashing statements. This isn't your friend you're talking to about how repulsive your older roommate smelled; this is your potential boss.

Would you hire somebody who always had something really bad to say about their former employer and insulted them personally? Most likely not. Thus, unless your interviewer specifically asks you to and says something along the lines of, "Yes, I'm completely serious. I know this is the type of question that most employers don't want to hear about - I'm different okay, different you see? Yes - yes. Go on and insult your former boss all you want. I'm odd. Trust me, I swear this isn't a trick and I truthfully, honestly, want to hear your insult skills," then don’t do it.

Do you ever wonder how "slackers" oftentimes very successfully make it through life? Why are excellent grades and a stellor performance sometimes not enough or less valuable then one would think?
Well--the development of a solid network can prove to be all the hard work you will ever need to do.
Consider this...
Harvard Business School does not disclose individual grades achieved by students. Also, grades are awarded according to a number system--one receives a '1' or a '2.' I have a close friend who describes B-School as a nonstop party. Why? Because--this is the top school in the nation where one is bound to rub elbows with future leaders. Relationships cultivated at B-School will lead to more opportunities for success than the actual classroom experience and this is clearly confirmed by the grading policies.
Don't underestimate the power of networking.

I've decide to keep my current relationship alive I'm going to be moving out to Troy, NY so that we can be together while he gets his PhD. Now, after months of job searching I feel as if it was a total waste of time since I will be clear across the country. You may think to yourself, 'What is in Troy, NY? Where is this Troy place?' Yeah, well, I've been asking myself the same thing. It is a small city that harbors the engineering college called Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute (RPI). I had never heard of it until recently, but apparently there are a few job opportunities out there. I'm just afraid that I am shooting myself in the foot. Living near San Fransisco there are plenty of job oppotunities, but moving to Troy, which has a population of about fifty thousand, I have a feeling I won't be too lucky. I guess we'll have to see when I get out there. You all will be updated on the prospective jobs, however, please don't move to Troy, there aren't enough jobs for us all.

My "real" job, for lack of a better term, is working Hospitality at a medium sized concert venue. I usually find a few writing gigs on the side, babysit, and temp. at my Dad's downtown apt. managment firm when they need extra help. Let me rephrase that, I temp. at my Dad's downtown apt. managment firm when the accounting side of the company is so backlogged with filing that they have no more space to stack things. They call me. I fix all organizational problems. This week, I noticed the vast difference between the two jobs. As an employee I run around taking care of everyone who needs anything, run back and forth from various stores and work random, long hours. As a temp. I dress up and sit around all day (ahem- 9-5, which I now know is NOT "all day" as compared to my recent 16-hour and 12-hour stints at the venue) filing and collating and finding space where it previously did not exist.
Still, I am more worn out filing than I am running around crazy. The elementariness hurts my brain. This is my lesson. I cannot have a full time filing job.

So what happens when the monotony gets to you? When it’s all you can stand to spend a full day in the office before thinking of leaving, or thinking up schemes to leave early in the day. When you expect (and silently demand) a half-day each Friday, yet know it’s any other day except it leads to the weekend. For me, it’s all the more pathetic as I currently only work part time—three days a week—but I’m thinking of staying on full time come September because I need the money for graduate school next year.

I get up in the morning, thinking about leaving work, I brush my teeth and wash my face, thinking about leaving work, I eat my breakfast on-the-go, thinking about leaving work, and I clock in at work also thinking about leaving work. It’s pretty pathetic. I know that these feelings are the cause of a lack of stimulation, and that I need to be more proactive in the workplace then simply sitting and talking to people, repeating the same thing over and over again, hour after hour, day after day. Monotony is my worst enemy. However, what can I do? I need the money and to get the money I have to work. What I need to do is to find a way to stay awake at work and motivate myself to get up in the morning and conquer my day.

One thing I like to do is incorporate creativity into my work ensemble. I have a business casual atmosphere, and that pretty much just means no jeans or flip-flops, so I can be pretty flexible. I like to mix and match things and accessorize a bit to create a nice original look. It sounds trivial but I bring up this example just to show that I am trying to find solutions to this problem. The whole getting dressed thing helps motivate me out of the bed and into the car in the morning. The real test comes when I am at work and am staring at the clock, which says 8:07am, and wishing with all my might it said 5pm.

Yesterday, a woman I work with gave me a book to read. I currently had a book that I’ve been reading and falling asleep to, but it is a required book I have to read for a seminar program in about two weeks. It’s dull beyond dull and at the end of the day I’m on the same page and it makes time move even slower. Well, this book is about murder, mayhem, lawyers, infidelity and a host of other incredibly enthralling topics—I couldn’t take my nose out of it. It was so good that while I was working, I barely noticed that I was working! I put the book down when calls came in and resumed reading when I hung up. Before I knew it, my first break came around, then lunch, and then my last break and then it was freedom at 5pm. That book was so good I was itching to finish it on the ride home, but I resisted. I had found the other solution to my problem; this book was going to keep me employed--and loving it.

Stimulation is the key. At times one must invent the stimulation, but do whatever is necessary to get the job done and to get it done well. I have that book to read now and I have my clothes to accessorize. Soon I will have to buy another book and some more clothes, but at least I know I will be able to do so when that time comes around because I will still have my job as opposed to being fired for taking too many “sick” days.

I just received another customer service assignment. I feel ambivalent to say the least. I am happy to have a steady gig because I need the money; however, I am not so sure how I feel about doing customer service again. I will be working in a rigid call center environment that will not allow me the freedom to take lunch when I want or choose what days of the week I will have off. I will be given a schedule and, for the next three months, be expected to adhere to it. I will go to lunch with my group at a time that is set in stone.

Am I once again succumbing to desperation once again? Yes. I am. I have no choice at this point. In order to survive, I must eat and keep a roof over my head. Who knows, this may actually turn out to be a pleasant experience. Every call center is different. The rigidity is the only aspect of the job that really gives me pause. Nobody likes having a dragon breathing down his neck micromanaging his every thought, word and deed.

Ciao amici. E’ io, Signore Kramer. Il nuovo professore dell’inglese.

That’s right. Unless feces graze the fan. Come September, I may very well be teaching English in the mother country, a mere 2 ½ hours from where my dad grew up. Not too shabby, huh? Today, I got offered a job teaching English in Mantova, Italy. And I plan on taking it.

In the middle of April, I applied to a sleugh of international teaching positions. Most of them required TESOL or TEFL certification, which can cost a cool $500. At the least. When I applied to these positions, I was cerificate-less. Ahem… still am. I figured that this was the primary reason why nobody really contacted me. The only credentials I had to offer were 9-some-odd courses of Italian I took in college and substitute teaching experience. But I second-guessed myself. Now why would I do something like that with all the job luck I’ve been having???

In other news, I plan on self-publishing my 2nd book through LULU by the end of this month or early August. I think my prospective agent is re-considering taking on my 1st book (which is the real hit) so I will be shopping it around elsewhere shortly. But my 2nd! Yavonne, Steven, and Shawn—nobody else probably reads these things—start getting excited. Put on your seatbelts, cause there’s gonna be a roller coaster of “why in God’s name did this guy spend all this time writing literary excrement?”

But I assure you, it will be an adventurous, absurd, and highly amusing roller coaster ride of “why in God’s name did this guy spend all this time writing literary excrement?”


For a while now, I have been looking for a part time job in business. I was wondering if anyone agrees with the thought that part time work will more often allow you to gain higher level experience than accepting a lower level, permanent full-time job. Even when I start looking for a full-time position, would it be better to start off small and work my way up the ladder or go for it all? Personally, I don't mind taking my time to learn about the industry; after all, you have to crawl before you walk. A friend of mine told me that another friend of hers was offered a high level, business position that paid well, but he chose to take a lower level one to learn more about the company. Any feedback is more than welcomed.

I've known a few people who, when things go the best they can, mention that this world is the best of all possible worlds. Things have been going right, and I'm moving through the world as fast as could be expected, I suppose. It took a seemingly providential eight minutes last night for me to realize how smoothly my circumstances were progressing, but I see the growth. This prompts me to remind myself - while the smile is still on my face - that the world does not move as fast as I would like it to, and when being critical or finding fault in my own efforts, I should take this into account.

I have been a freelancer since last May, but everyone should be a little hesitant about listening to that term. While technically I have a year of experience under my belt, that year was very slow in develloping. I have made great strides in my understanding of the Chicago Manual of Style, 15th ed. I have gained a number of customers for my services. I have not yet learned how to pay the bills with sporadic and flamboyant income.

About a week ago, I finally finished a battery of tests from a .com proofreading service, and they finally excepted me into their ranks on Thursday. Since then I have completed about six assignments for them, and they have enabled me to put more time into practicing my skills than eliciting for customers. It does not take much effort on my part to realize that the educational opportunity they are currently providing me will be, if it is not already this powerful, a career-shaping force, which will have a powerful impact on many of my future decisions. It is the foot in the door, but I won't have to fight with drunk and rowdy friends to shove the door open the rest of the way. With this experience, I should finally have accomplished entrance into corporate life.

I'm balancing my income from freelance work, comprised mainly of that previously mentioned .com service, with a job at another coffee house. As I'm sure at least a few people on this blog know, coffee house managers can be either abusive or kind, and I think that I've found the latter. Back in November this certainly wasn't the case (providing the majority of the reason why I quit providing them my service in January), but this time around the company has decided to cater wonderfully to my freelance hours, and should provide a supplemental income that will cover the majority of my bills (student loans, credit cards, etc). Here's hoping that the two combine well beyond theory.

To contribute to both of these successes, I'm still waiting on a call from a potential employer who supports my freelance career. The company is considering me for a Marketing Proofreader and PR Speechwriter position, but their response has been long in coming. However, holidays (even the fourth of July) always through a wrench in the corporate calendar, and I am hopeful that they will still come back with a positive reply. Not only will I be making nearly three times what I do at the coffee house, but I will be learning the tricks of the trade in the office as well as my free time. At this point, the education is so much more important than the money, but it wil stilll be nice to receive both.

On top of that, there's a girl, a dog, and fireworks. After the job search is satisfied, and I've said that it's going very well for the moment, there are also successful topics in other parts of life, too. I may not believe that this is the best of all possible worlds, but life is currently at an apex; I was fortunate enough to realize my fortune beforeihe wheelt moved into it's next cycle.

Yvonne: In a blog entitled Sports and Finance, I thanked you for your advice related to my Getting Pigeon-holed blog. In response, you then posted a comment which I've copied here:

At least I make a copy of my work before posting it.

I've thought about it for quite a while now. I must admit the comment stung. And to be honest, I still don't have a clue to what you're referring. Was I supposed to copy your response into my Sports and Finance blog so you knew what I was thanking you for? Was there some link I was supposed to use to respond directly to your comment?

In looking at all the pieces, you seem to be referring again to my Follow-Up Foibles blog which you'd already given me feedback on. However, as I've stated, my thanks was for your advice to the Getting Pigeon-Holed blog. I probably should have included that reference and will do so in the future.

I've thought about just letting this go, but wanted to make sure that I understood the situation so that I didn't make the same mistake again.

(By the way -- in another blog you refer to me as a he, but I'm a she.)

As I mentioned in a previous blog, I have been given the opportunity to intern for a major financial company next summer. I recently received an email from the individual with whom I'd networked in order to get this position. He asked me a very simple question, but one that I couldn't answer at the time. Even in thinking about it, I haven't been able to formulate a complete answer yet.

The question was -- "What do you want to do?" This wasn't simply another way to say "Are you taking the internship?" because we'd already established that fact. He also knows that I'm a public relations major and was interested in working within that department at his company. So what he was really asking was -- "Now that you have the internship, what skills would you like to work on? What do you hope to accomplish by the end of the summer? What do you want to take with you when you leave?" Having only finished my freshman year of college, I honestly don't feel like I know enough about public relations in general to begin to specify. And I certainly don't know enough about the financial world to begin to link the two together.

As I've thought about this, I've also come to the conclusion that I'm not one of those people who knows exactly what they want to do. I've thought about it generally. That's not to say that I don't have focus, because I do. However, the single-mindedness that this question seems to beg exists for me in other areas of my life, rather than in my career goals. One of the issues for me is that there are lots of things within public relations that I would be happy to do, so I haven't focused my attention on just one aspect. Another aspect of this whole thing is at the heart of why I chose public relations -- it's wide-ranging, it's varied-- full of nuances and opportunities.

I guess I'd assumed that the company had some pre-existing, molded intership positions that I'd simply be slotted into. It's a terrific opportunity to be able to have some input into what I'll be doing for a summer. But, am I the best person to decide what I need to be doing? What if I miss something that I don't even know that I need to experience? I think I need a mentor here to guide and direct, but don't really have one. I'm afraid to answer the email with a "whatever you/the company thinks is my best fit" because I don't want to sound wishy-washy. But I'm really afraid my ignorance and lack of experience will show through if I answer with the specificities I think he's seeking.

I’m in an interesting situation and even more interesting dynamic as I work at the same place my older sister does, temporarily anyway, and for years I have heard stories about her coworkers—the good and the bad. So I wasn’t exactly nervous with how I was going to get along with the people in my workplace, but then again it was awkward for me as I already had personalities and traits attached to people I barely even knew.

An entirely different spin on workplace politics I suppose, yet still equally tense. There were people that my sister didn’t quite “get along with,” yet I either didn’t see their malevolence right away or they were seemingly nice to me. Then there are the others I don’t quite mesh with so well but my sister adores them. I found myself asking: how do I get along with the people I work with?

Even though I felt like it was going to be easier since the place was familiar to me as well as the people there, that was not the case. I find myself now wondering what people’s motives are, whom I talk to, and whom I give the cold shoulder to, and a host of other silly issues. Seriously, it is hard to maintain harmony in the workplace, I have discovered, and many of the issues we felt were long gone in elementary, middle and high school resurface. Adults are just as argumentative and childish as, well, children. The most I can hope for is to do my job the best of my ability and…okay; I can still do that and not rid myself of dramatic scenes. Understanding that there is a politics of the situation is helping me cope and to not take things TOO seriously.

I think it is important to connect with people you work with. Maintaining a happy and supportive environment I feel is crucial to success in the workplace. It may seem trivial at first but walking into an office everyday where people don’t like you has to have an effect on self-esteem and productivity. Finding ways to compromise with the people I work with is important to me and necessary. I find myself not entirely concerned because I know I am only there for a limited amount of time, but I still believe that the social connections I make there are very important.

I just take people with a grain of salt, and remember that I have to remain myself. There are ALWAYS going to be people I may not “get along with,” and as long as I can say I was honest with myself at the end of the day, I’m content.

there seems to have been some confusion (on my behalf, since i forgot to mention it.)

the title of my last entry was "speed is life." i forgot to mention that's yet another one of the clever slogans used by T----, the department store I'm working at.

it didn't mean anything else, as someone may have thought.

thanks.

bye.

I just read a very interesting article on how self-defeating attitudes can prevent you from getting the job you want. The article gave four reasons for developing these attitudes; they include entitlement, lack of focus, give me a chance, and anger and despair. Entitlement is when we feel that we deserve a job because we have done what is necessary to get one. For example, going to college and getting a degree and/or getting various jobs to gain skills and experience. However, employers are not concerned with who deserves a job, but who can best satisfy their company's needs. That may not always seem fair, but with so many people competing for jobs, you have to distinguish yourself from the pack. Next, is lack of focus. Sometimes you have no idea what you want to do with your life. As a result, you might say you'll do anything, but most employers probably don't want to run the risk of hiring someone with no sense of direction. They call this the "I'll do anything" trap. To overcome this attitude, get assistance from campus career counselors or professors who may be able to steer you in the right direction. Then, there is the "give me a chance" attitude. You feel like the world is against you because no one will give you a job. How can one gain experience if he or she can't get a job. The article says to think like an employer, the person who pays someone else to get tasks done. Would you really be concerned with giving out chances or with the goals and needs of your business? I guses once you think like an employer, you realize you can't just hire anybody. Finally, is the feeling of anger and despair. Of all these self-defeating attitudes, this is the most dangerous. You sense you are just wasting time and energy trying to find a job, where your degree can be utilized. This is understandable. You might need to consult a counselor or other professional to help you regain a proper prosepctive not just on a career, but on life.

By finding ways to deal with these negative attitudes, you can put yourself back on course to finding success out in the real world. I know it's not always easy, but never, never, give up. Your time and my time will come.

I think the wardrobe debate is an important one, especially to me as I hold my first “real” and professional job and notice that I don’t own a lot of clothes that are truly business-worthy—including shoes. I’m lucky because my office rules dictate a business casual atmosphere. So I don’t have to walk in everyday in a suit, and I couldn’t, as I don’t even own one. It seems to be common knowledge that after graduation we are all supposed to buy that one “boring suit” so that we have it for this precise situation, but I ignored the memo I guess.

I was just reading this article debate on how flip-flops might ruin the careers of women because it “conveys the mood that you are relaxed and on vacation,” in the workplace. Forgive me if reading that statement caused me to roll my eyes. I can’t wear flip-flops or sneakers either to work, although, actually, my supervisors distinguish between rubber soled flip-slops that are restricted, and all the rest as…acceptable?

I guess I respect the fact that there is a dress code. Yet secretly loathe it since not only do I have to go shopping with my first paycheck, I know that in jeans and a t-shirt I could do my work just as professionally. In truth, I feel like as long as employees are well groomed and wear clean clothing everyday, where is the problem?

There are studies, and apparently books, which “prove” certain clothes, portray certain images and this is transmitted to consumers, clients and customers. I bet if every company instituted a casual dress code, consumers, clients, and customers would not think us any less competent. I know, it’s a nice little fantasy; one I’ve been thinking about frequently as I bemoan the day I have to get boring professional clothes to wear to work. It’s all just so unnecessary yet so required.

A young woman applied for a job with a manufacturing company. They had a job entitled Cycle Counter. When she got to the area asking for what position she was applying, she wrote Recycler. The company has no such position.

Needless to say, the young woman did not receive the job. Since employers are not in the habit of telling people why they were passed over for a job, she will never know why she was not considered.

I would also advise being careful when applying for jobs online. Often there is a job code number that has to be entered somewhere along the way. If you're anything like me and have a tendency to transpose numbers, then write the number down before going on to the application stage. It can make all the difference in the world.

I originally wrote a similar article for my own army blog to encourage soldiers to look into the possibilities of creating an investment plan for their financial futures. Recently I had read a book called the “Automatic Millionaire” by David Bach. The book was really great, and I highly recommend picking up a copy. It’s not a get rich quick book, but describes easy solutions to automating your financial future.

A really good idea would be to set up an account with Sharebuilder.com. Sharebuilder is an online brokerage designed to make investing easy, affordable and accessible for both beginning and experienced investors. With the Sharebuilder Plan, you can invest regularly through automatic investments, allowing you to buy partial shares of stocks and accumulate your investments over time.

You can schedule automatic investments either weekly or on a monthly basis. Setting yourself up to automate your investments is your key to success. The reason I say this is because you won’t have to remind yourself to invest in your plan. Chances are if you do not set yourself up to automate your financial plan, you will come to a point where you will say “Well. I will do this next week when I have time.” Eventually you will stop and give up your initial plan of investing.

My advice would be to sign up for the Sharebuilder Basic program with no subscriptions fees and only $4 per automatic investment. I would start by choosing one or two good companies to invest in. I will provide some resources below to help you. Think of some companies and products that you use in your daily life and write them down. You should have a starting list of 10-15. Use the resources below to look up information on your choices. Out of your selections find out which ones pay a dividend. You will want your one to two stocks to pay a dividend. This means that for every share you own, you are paid a portion of the company’s earnings. Within your Sharebuilder account you can select to automatically reinvest those dividends or have the money go to your cash balance. I would opt to reinvest them.

After awhile your stock purchases will add up. Now investing does have some risk, but equally it has some rewards. Make sure you do some research on your stock picks. Stay away from penny stocks. Later on when you have more experience and you want to try buying and selling penny stocks, you can. For now though, you want to start building up a good, sound, diversified portfolio. Sharebuilder also has lots of tools within your account that can help you. To be diversified, you will need more than your one or two stocks. For now you will want to just start working towards building that portfolio by choosing the one or two investments. Later you can add more.

If you find that investing in stocks is not for you, Sharebuilder has an option of buying ETFs (exchange traded funds), which are like stocks allowing you to buy and sell, but typically safer like Mutual Funds.

Mutual Funds however grow much slower but I still recommend adding a few of these at a later time as well. You will need to find a different investment firm that handles Mutual Funds. A good resource for this would be Vanguard or Fidelity. Fidelity has some good funds known as "Freedom Funds" which are based on your estimated retirement year.

Please note: this is just my advice. I am not a broker or financial consultant. I am only offering up a suggestion and starting points for you to further research into on your own. I am not associated with any of the sites in any way, nor am I paid by any of them to suggest using their products or services. These are companies that I use in my own life and can honestly recommend them as a good resource.

Helpful Resources:

Broker Accounts
http://www.sharebuilder.com
http://www.fidelity.com
http://www.vanguard.com
http://www.scottrade.com (no automated investing)

Research Resources
http://finance.yahoo.com
http://www.smartmoney.com
http://www.thestreet.com
http://moneycentral.msn.com/investor/home.asp
http://www.morningstar.com

Forgive my ignorance, but since I have only just started on the path towards teaching certification, I am not fully aware of the options available to me before I receive a valid certificate to teach from the state of Florida. I know in Ohio you can substitute teach even if you don't have a teaching certificate as long as you have a bachelor's degree. Does anyone know if the same holds true for Florida? I have been online looking at websites about teaching in Florida, and they offer a wealth of information on teaching jobs and how to get certified, but none offer information about subbing. Should I contact the Florida department of education? I'm very curious because I want to get a feel for various classroom environments. My experience with teaching has been limited to tutoring one on one and conducting a few small groups.

I was not asking for career counseling. I am confident in what I have to offer and I know which industry suits me. I was simply pointing out the downfalls of certain academic curriculums. This is no fault of the students; rather, it is an important aspect of education that should be looked into and possibly reformed--and not just the English curriculum. I want to expose the possible downfalls of university education and make people aware of certain changes that may be required in educational agendas as the job market evolves.

Because of this deficiency in education, I encourage all undergrads to really spread themselves out during their academic career and take advantage of other opportunities offered through their school with the intent of carving out their own path on the way to their desired endpoint. In other words, knowing where one wants to be and how to get there on her own accord is priceless information. Don't expect doors to open themselves just bc some college has awarded you a diploma.

I'm sure that everyone who writes for this blog has had their frustrations and set backs on their search for a good job, including me. I finished my classes in December and officially graduated from college in January, and it took me until March to be offered a position that I could feel good about accepting. I know that a couple of months isn't a very long time, but when you're worried about whether or not someone will give you a change and hire you, it drags. Between the end of my classes and the begining of my current job, I worked part-time as a teller at a bank (I had started there the summer before). I hated the job and every day I wondered if I would have to resign myself to being a bank teller for the rest of my life, which is not a good prospect when you're a college grad and you've set your aims much higher. In reality, the job was just something to do before I found what I wanted, but at the time, I felt a little depressed and began to think that all that hard work I put into college was for nothing. We can probably all relate to that here.

But now that I've been working for a couple of months now at a job that I enjoy, I realize that going through that phase was probably a good thing. If I had been hired into a nice job straight out of college, I don't think I would have appreciated it as much as I appreciate my current job. When you have to work for something or wait it out, you don't take it for granted, and I think that it can make you a better employee. I felt so fortunate and grateful to be hired that I still remind myself of it daily, and I think that helps me keep a positive attitude even on days when things aren't going so well.

I know how hard it is to deal with what you perceive as failures, like when you're told you were passed over for a job that you really wanted, were qualified for, and interviewed well for. That happened to me when I was one of the two remaining candidates for a marketing position at a local hospital and I didn't get the job. It really hurt at the time, but I think it was for the best. If I had been hired and accepted the job there, I wouldn't be doing what I'm doing now, and I think that where I work now is the best place for me. I guess what I'm saying is that when one door shuts another one opens, but that's really hard to see when the door has just been shut in your face. You have to keep trying to find a job you want as much as before, and don't lower your standards because you think you've failed. You'll be glad when you do find that terrific job.

Last month I went to an interview for the federal government. I was really excited because I thought that I might just have a chance to obtain a job with them. I thought the interview was going well, better than well. It was the best interview I had ever been on. The interview was progressing on and then I had to take a test, which I also thought went just as well. I was nervous while taking the test, but I know I did the best I could on it, given the time constraints.

Anyway, I left the interview that day with the hopes of hearing from the company and offering me a job with them. I didn't hear anything within a few days, so I called them almost a week later to see if the position was filled yet. To my dismay, it was. I wondered what I did that was so wrong. I heard that not many people get interviews with the government and that it is hard to actually get federal jobs, but I thought that my interview went exceptionally well. I know I had competition, but I guess someone else just out-did me on something.

Now, again, I am left wondering where to apply and to all of you out there, I have applied everywhere. I have done all I can think of to do. I had another interview yesterday also, at a lawyers firm, and basically I was told that I couldn't handle certain positions because I didn't have experience. This makes me very upset because I'm working my butt off, doing the best I can of finding and applying for jobs, and the basic reason I'm getting is, "You don't have any experience." I know people that have secretarial jobs and such that don't have a college degree and I do, so how is that fair?

So, what am I to do now? I thought that I had a good chance at getting hired for the federal job, but I was passed up. The benefits were great, even the hours were great. The job would have been perfect for me. A chance like this doesn't come around often. I hope another one comes around soon though. I don't think anyone really knows how hard it is to find a job after college unless you're in that position yourself.

I have a feeling that I will be stuck working at the place I work at now for the rest of my life, which it isn't even giving me any experience. I have a B.A. in creative writing. I have applied online, from newspapers, magazines, everywhere, even if they weren't hiring. I opened up my search to jobs with and without writing as well. Any suggestions would be helpful on what I could possibly do so that my education wouldn't be wasted.