On Interviewing and Blind Dates
Have you ever gone on a blind date? Maybe you have; maybe you haven't. If you did, maybe it went very well, or maybe it was terrible and you vowed never to do that again. I like blind dates. I've gone on two in my lifetime; one fell into the disaster category and the other led to an I do.
The other day as I was coaching an executive about his interview concerns, it came up in conversation about how much an interview is like a blind date. You never know how it's going to go until you meet one another. Interviewing; blind dates -- similar activities where some of the same rules and considerations apply:
- Look your best; put a smile on your face; be polite.
- Don't talk too much; don't dominate the conversation and don't badmouth anyone.
- Be an attentive listener; ask a few questions, and learn about the other person.
- Watch your language, including word selection and grammar.
- Don't worry if there's quiet space or silence; it's OK.
- Tell yourself you're going to have a good time, no matter what.
- Turn your radar on to detect any knock-out factors or areas of concern.
- Don't run up a big tab, especially if you're not paying.
- Keep private and personal information private.
- Do not lie or misrepresent yourself.
- Have no unrealistic expectations about the meeting.
- Be positive and upbeat; don't dwell on the negatives (if any) in your life.
- Be thoughtful, respectful, and courteous.
- Assess if there's a fit, a match, connection, vibes, or sparks.
- Make a good impression; conclude your meeting on a positive note even if you aren't interested in pursuing the opportunity, and don't forget to say thank you.
So, whether you're going on a blind date, or headed to a job interview, make the most of the meeting, put your best foot forward and remember, it's a conversation, not a commitment.
By billiesucher and courtesy of CareerHub.com. The Career Hub blog connects job seekers with experts in career counseling, resume writing, personal branding and recruiting.








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