Easing the Transition
Dear Sue:
I am 42 years-old and I still am trying to figure out what I want to do with my life when I grow up. I've figured out what I do not want to do -- which is continue in the occupation that has sustained me for 15 of the last 17 years. However, I don't want to throw away that experience either.
I recently graduated from college and would like to go on to a graduate program, and eventually teach at the community college level or higher, despite the politics.
Meanwhile I need to work, yet I have no idea what I should apply for other than what I am skilled in and do not want to do. Do you have any sage advice?
- Steve
Sue Says:
Although you say that you do not know what you want to do with your life, you sound as though you have more focus than you give yourself credit for.
The problem may be that you want to make too many changes all at once.
Do you feel an immediate need to change jobs and get out of the same position you have held for 15 years? Or is going back to school and eventually teaching a higher priority? If it is, then your focus needs to be on your education at this time. If you decide to pursue graduate school, you'll need a job that will sustain you. It may not be the best time to embark on a new adventure -- the stability of a job in which you are comfortable may be just what you need during the time you are in school.
Sure you've realized that this isn't the type of work you want to be doing the rest of your life, but you will be working toward a goal that will enable you to do what you want once you graduate.
If you aren't sure about going back to school, then you are free to invest time in yourself and look into other opportunities.
Although many people spend their whole lives in search of what they want to do, the fact that you are looking for answers indicates you are ready to make some decisions (and changes) in your life. I wish I could tell you what to do, but only you know what you really want -- take the time you need to figure it out.
-- Sue Morem is a professional speaker, best-selling author and syndicated columnist. Her books include How to Gain the Professional Edge, 101 Tips for Graduates, and the just released How to Get a Job and Keep It, Second Edition. You can send questions to her by email at asksue@suemorem.com or visit her web site at http://www.suemorem.com.
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