Sue Says:

There will always be people who appear to soar through their careers effortlessly, but don’t be fooled; it’s never as random or effortless as it appears. Self promotion isn’t about bragging about your accomplishments or stepping over others, it’s about owning your strengths and believing in yourself. You don’t t have to change who you are to get where you want.

Self-promoters are confident people who present themselves in the best possible manner at all times. They are people who aren’t afraid of praising others; they know that making someone else look good makes them look good too.

Pay close attention to the things you say and do. Do you build yourself up and focus on your strengths or do you tear yourself down and dwell on your shortcomings? Do you find opportunities and make things happen or wait for opportunities to come to you? Are you willing to take on a challenge or do you prefer the status quo? Do you volunteer to help out even when you may not benefit directly or do you avoid involvement if there’s nothing in it for you?

Self-promotion is more than a skill to be mastered; it is a way of thinking and being. Consider the following:

Know what makes you uniquely you. Identify your achievements, no matter how small. Keep track of your accomplishments and the lessons you’ve learned. No matter how insignificant you may think something seems, it might just be the one thing that sets you apart from others.

Get out of the background and into the forefront. Put your name “out there”. Make sure people get to know you. Reach out to others, be the first to say hello. Get connected -- and stay connected -- with people. Remember people on special occasions, honor their accomplishments, and let them know what’s happening with you. Keep in touch with brief e-mails, a personal note, or a quick phone call every now and then. Never become a nuisance, but do what you can to stay connected.

Get noticed. People who look as if they are ready for advancement typically are. If you want to get noticed, you have to do more than blend in; you need to stand out. Don’t go around telling people how great you are; let them see it for themselves. Dress a little better, stand a little taller, smile a little more; make your conversations a little snappier. It’s the little things that make a difference; start adding something small each day. Before you know it, people will take notice and you will get the recognition you deserve.

Self promotion is a way of being; be the kind of person you need to be to get where you want.

-- Sue Morem is a professional speaker, best-selling author and syndicated columnist. Her books include How to Gain the Professional Edge, 101 Tips for Graduates, and the just released How to Get a Job and Keep It, Second Edition. You can send questions to her by email at asksue@suemorem.com or visit her web site at http://www.suemorem.com.

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