It’s been over a month and I am not sure how my supervisor will react to me calling after so much time has passed. I would think if my termination was due to performance issues or a disagreement with my supervisor that that would have been noted as reason for termination.

- Need Closure

Sue Says: I don’t think it is too late for you to inquire, but if you do, it is possible you won’t get the closure you seek or be satisfied with the explanation you get.. Depending on the type of relationship you had with your supervisor you might consider asking him/her to meet for coffee, rather than simply calling and asking why you were terminated.

Depending on what you find out, you could say your job was “over”, position eliminated, or services no longer needed. Do not lie; state whatever feels most true to you and don’t over explain why your employment was terminated. Talk more about what you learned, what you bring to the next position and why you are right for the job you are seeking. Seven years employment with a company reflects favorably on you; if you focus on what you gained over the years, the reason you left will be of little importance. Good luck

Sue Morem is a professional speaker, best-selling author and syndicated columnist. Her books include How to Gain the Professional Edge, 101 Tips for Graduates, and the just released How to Get a Job and Keep It, Second Edition. You can contact her by email at asksue@suemorem.com or visit her web site at http://www.suemorem.com.

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